What the histories of convicted violent offenders teach us about sexual privacy, stalking, consent, and taking women’s reports seriously. A woman notices someone standing outside her bedroom window. Perhaps she …
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The Exception Man: New Vocabulary Does Not Change the Reality of Male Violence
“It was ‘that’ kind of man who harmed you, not this kind.” But how can we prevent harm in the future? What did we miss? What went wrong? The burden …
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Victimization, Victimhood, and the Right to Keep Naming What Happened
Victimized vs. Victimization Victimization describes an experience, act, process, or condition in which someone is harmed, exploited, abused, targeted, deprived of rights, or subjected to wrongdoing. Victimization tells us what …
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Womenβs Rights Were Never Just for Feminine Women: How Stereotypes Can Be Used to Divide Women.
There is a mistake we can make when thinking about divide-and-conquer strategies. We imagine somebody has to promise the recruited group something enormous. Equality. More rights. Freedom. A seat at …
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Marcia Johnson Told Them She Was Afraid: Why Everyone Needs to Understand the Dynamics of Domestic Violence (Part 1)
There are cases that remind us why understanding domestic violence cannot be limited to advocates, shelter workers, police officers, or women who have already lived through it. Everybody needs to …
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Tina Turner Told Us She Was Raped. People Still Made Jokes: What That Reveals About Rape Culture
Tina Turner did what we so often tell women to do. She spoke. She told the truth about the violence in her marriage. She described beatings, coercive control, and sexual …
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Before We Ask Why Black Women Donβt Talk, We Need to Ask What Happens When They Do
There is a familiar sentence that appears whenever violence against Black women becomes impossible to ignore: βBlack women don’t talk.β Sometimes it is said with concern. Sometimes frustration. Sometimes it …
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When Someone Tries to Humiliate You and Take Your Name: Two Abuse Tactics Survivors Should Know (audio ep)
Abuse does not always begin with a bruise. Sometimes it begins with humiliation. Sometimes it reaches for your name. In this episode of the We Survive Abuse Podcast, Tonya GJ …
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We Celebrated Womenβs Gains. We Also Need to Talk About What Was Being Eroded.
We Celebrated Womenβs Gains. We Also Need to Talk About What Is Being Eroded. There is a story we often tell about womenβs progress. Women organized, laws changed, rape became …
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Misogynist Gaslighting: The Reversal That Keeps Women Unsafe
Updated from June 8, 2025 No matter the group of men who disregard female humanityβwho they like, who they don’t like, what they like- the tactics of misogynistic males remain …