Category: Safe Boundaried Spaces

đ€ It Isnât Discipline. Itâs Domination Disguised as a Lesson.
(Inspired by âHow Abusers Place Themselves Above Accountabilityâ â WeS [...]

When Cruelty Pretends to Be Care: The Lie Behind âI Was Just Teaching You a Lesson
All of this, "we didn't do the right thing to to teach you a lesson." [...]

When Survivors Speak, They Name the WoundâNot the Excuse (w/affirmations)
For abusive persons, there are few human beings perfect enough to be [...]

And Why Don’t Black Women Call the Police? (Graphic video posted by Ben Crump)
âThe Constitution they wrote was designed to protect the rights of w [...]

The Survival Doll Trap: A Caution
Stay away from people who canât wait to see you step into danger, but [...]

Survivor Affirmation: I Will NOT Shrink Truth to Comfort Those Who Fear Boundaries
Boundaries are love not hate.
They are love in action â love for your [...]

Loneliness vs. Depletion: Why Women Need Safe, Reciprocal CompanionshipâNot One-Sided Connections
Loneliness is real, but being drained by one-sided âconnectionsâ is fa [...]

Courtney Stoddenâs Lifetime Movie Exposes the Public Grooming of a Child Brideâand the Cruelty of Celebrity Culture
I wasn't deeply familiar with this young woman prior to watching the L [...]

10 Clear Signs He Doesnât Respect You (And How Survivors Can Break Free From the Programming That Keeps Us Silent)
Respect isnât what he says in public. Itâs how he moves when no one is [...]

No Predator Has the Authority to Rename Violence As a âRight.â
Abusers call what they do to women and children by many names. They dr [...]