Category: Self care
Being Protective Is Good: Why You Donât Have to Choose Between Kindness and Boundaries
In todayâs worldâespecially in progressive spacesâmany women are made [...]
You Can Support Human Rights and Ask for Safety
You are allowed to care about peopleâand care about your own protect [...]
You Can Love People and Still Set Firm, Protective Boundaries
Theyâll tell you that love means saying "yes".That love means flexibil [...]
You Can Be Inclusive Without Abandoning Girls, Women, or Survivors
Inclusion should never come at the cost of someone elseâs safety.
But [...]
Calling Women âHatefulâ for Wanting Safety Is Abuse Dressed in Decorum
Letâs name this for what it is:
When politicians, media figures, or [...]
Power Doesnât Always Mean ProtectionâAnd Thatâs the Problem
Iâve worked with women in power.Judges. Prosecutors. City council me [...]
The Media Is Teaching Women to Be Silent About Violence. Even Women in Media.
We need to name it.
The mediaâmainstream and socialâisn't just failin [...]
đĄïž Survival Required Specificity
đĄïž Survival Required Specificity
We donât survive by blending in.We s [...]
𧩠Oppressive Systems Are Built to Erase Specificity
We must say it plainly: Oppressive systems are designed to flatten, ge [...]
Some âJustice Movementsâ Are Enabling Harm Against Women and Children. We Need to Talk About It.
Not every movement that says it stands for âjusticeâ is safe for wom [...]