Category: Surviving Daily

Please Stop Telling Survivors, “Men Wouldn’t Go That Far.” History Says Otherwise.
updated from March 24 2025 Interesting fact:
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Survivor Mary Lumpkin: The Woman Who Turned a Place of Pain Into a Place of Promise
Before history knew her as a symbol, Mary Lumpkin was a w [...]

The Architecture of False Safety: 7 Red Flags
We have got to stop treating the violent crossing of human bou [...]

Erin Justice: The Worst That Could Happen
updated from May 31, 2023
Women and [...]

VERY IMPORTANT LESSONS FROM THE BOOK “THE GIFT OF FEAR” | 8 SURVIVAL SIGNALS YOU NEED TO KNOW
Note: Rape victims are not at fault for being raped. She [...]

How We Villainize Black Women Who Disagree with Males, Violence, & Abuse: C. Delores Tucker
How We Villainize Black Women Who Disagree with Males C [...]

Our History Teaches Us to Protect What Remains
"If you are silent about your pain, they'll kill you and say y [...]

Friendly Fire: Why Are Women Funding Their Own Erasure?
Tell me who I have to be to gain some reciprocity.... Ms. Laur [...]

Gaslighting Isnât Love: Red Flags Black Women Can Choose to Name Out Loud â and Walk Away From
updated from April 7, 2023
Sometimes they try to make you feel like [...]

You Deserve SafetyâEven When Youâre Just Trying to Keep Going
Some of us were never told that we deserved to feel safe.W [...]