Body safety

Printable PDF Women and girls are frequently sent the message that demanding accommodations for our health and safety are “selfish.” And, DEI is a sin, you know.   Meanwhile, there are …

There’s a strange thing happening in our world today—especially online—where people want to argue about the words we use instead of facing the truth behind them. Take the word “dominate.” …

Why are people angry? I will tell you. This happens to nearly every victim who chooses themselves and the truth. After a season of ambivalence and uncertainty, (not uncommon & …

Some of us didn’t need a courtroom to tell us that digital harm is real. We felt it in our bones the moment someone used our name, our picture, or …

Saying “Black woman” is not race discourse.It’s not divisive.It’s not inflammatory.It’s accuracy in the field of violence and abuse — a field that has avoided telling the truth for far …

Every time a woman raises her voice about a violation, someone appears — online, in the comments, in the community — to say: “She went off.”“She overreacted.”“She should have handled …

So, Meghann Cuniff. The Megan Thee Stallion case didn’t just expose a violent act.It exposed a culture — one that treats Black women’s pain like a spectacle, a meme, a …

There are times in this work where you have to resist the urge to cuss everybody clean out. Just tell people the truth with no filter. That’s why I wish …

“They may call you hateful. But what they won’t call you is gone — because you trusted yourself.”  Ignore the noise of people who do not know better. Lack of …