I’m sorry. People talk as if women’s safety is something governments eventually “figure out,” like a policy glitch that just needs an update. History doesn’t tell that story. It tells …
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The Culture That Questions Women Before It Stops Men
Femicide. We keep saying it. “We can’t bring her back, but justice was served.” We say it after the trial. After the sentencing. After the cameras leave. And every time, …
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Women Are Not Required to Be Available
No one could have predicted how this year would end. It bent sharply. Again and again. Just when people thought they understood the terrain, the road changed beneath their feet. …
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Access to Women Is Not a Male Human Right
There is something deeply revealing about the world we live in. You cannot rent a car without agreeing to terms….and a credit card. You cannot lease a home without stringent …
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Womanism/FeminismAbuse of PowerDECEPTIONDisabilityDisability and Chronic IllnessFemale Health and Safetyfemale health civil rightsFemicideIn the NewsJustice is Authentic LoveManipulationMental healthMental Wellness and HealingMental Wellness and HealthPolitical ActionPowerSafe Boundaried SpacesSurviving DailyTRUTHViolence Against Women
Our Mental Health Crisis is a Values Crisis
We have made a choice. Not quietly.Not accidentally.Not without consequence. We have chosen to be a nation that does not guarantee authentic and truthful mental health care around the clock.That …
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Abuse of PowerBlack WomenBody safetyBoundariesCivil Rights & Social JusticeDECEPTIONFemale Health and Safetyfemale health civil rightsFeminism/WomanismHerstory/HistoryJustice is Authentic LoveLoving SafelyManipulationMisogynySurviving DailyViolence Against WomenWomanism/Feminism
Forced Sterilization Wasn’t a Mistake. It Was Misogyny and Racism Working Together.
“All they know about is slavery” Do we? Or is that all you heard before you stopped listening so people stopped sharing with you? Because there is too much more. …
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Why Is Black Women’s Truth Treated as Disloyalty?
There is a name for what happens when Black women are pressured to abandon our Blackness in order to be accepted as “real” women. Racial Gatekeeping of Womanhood. It shows …
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Truth Over Tropes in True Crime Storytelling
Let me say this plainly, first and always: What Noel Stevens did was horrific.Shauna Tiaffay is the victim.Her children are victims.Nothing about this conversation excuses violence.Nothing shifts responsibility away from …
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When Belonging Breaks: Surviving in Truth When Cultures Defends Abusers
I get when some groups defend some aspects of abusers. I’ve slipped (more than once) and done it too. I’m a human. I still have a duty to push back …
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Jingle Bells Too: When People Pretend the Story Ended at “Slavery Ended”
This isn’t about a song but like most art, it offers life lessons. Jingle Bells” was written in 1857 by James Lord Pierpont, a white composer who worked in minstrel …