Category: Self care

When a Woman’s No Is Called Hatred: What Does That Say About How Men View Women’s Boundaries? (with free pdf download)
Why women's refusal, independence, and desire for safety are so often [...]

How Violence Prevention Is Treated as Worse Than the Violence Itself
When a woman asks for safety, listen to the danger she is describi [...]

Women Are Already Being Kind: 12 Ways Women and Girls Are Taught to Give, Care, Serve, and Sacrifice
There is something strange about repeatedly telling women and girls th [...]

Consent Beyond the Bedroom: Women’s Autonomy in Dating and Relationships
Consent is not only the right to say yes. It is the freedom to say no [...]

Featuring Bunmi: Who Benefits When Women Are Encouraged to Leave Their Sexual Boundaries Open to Revision?
Who benefits when women are encouraged to understand their sexual boun [...]

10 Reasons Women Aren’t Bigots for Saying No to Dating or Sex
Human dignity should be universal. Sexual access should never be.
We [...]

When Giving Up Women’s Rights Is Called Progress: 15 Questions Worth Asking
updated from March 23 2025There is a familiar pattern in [...]

Misogynist Gaslighting: The Reversal That Keeps Women Unsafe
Updated from June 8, 2025
No matter the group of men who disregard [...]

A Society Can Create More Opportunities for Connection. It Cannot Solve Rejection by Taking Away Women’s Right to Say No.
There is a conversation we need to have about loneli [...]

NO ONE Can Assert a Right to Be in Your Dating Pool
You are allowed to have preferences that produce absolutely no social [...]