Category: Self care

15 Signs Someone Is Manipulating You Through Confusion
updated from July 27 2023One of the biggest myths about manipu [...]

Please Stop Telling Survivors, “Men Wouldn’t Go That Far.” History Says Otherwise.
updated from March 24 2025 Interesting fact:
Before [...]

10 Lessons The Hate U Give Teaches Us About Seeing, Hearing, and Protecting Girls
The most dangerous thing adults can do to a child is not [...]

Shame Has Never Been a Substitute for Justice
I deeply despise stories that depict women finding their way t [...]

You Deserve SafetyâEven When Youâre Just Trying to Keep Going
Some of us were never told that we deserved to feel safe.W [...]

Every Solution Was Rejected Because Access Was the Goal: Understanding Forced Access, Coercion, and Why So Many Women Feel Pressured to Explain Themselves
A woman asks for safety.
Everyone else asks for evidence.
&n [...]

What If We Debated Menâs Bodies the Way We Debate Womenâs Bodies?
Let's try something new.
Menâs spaces are often treated as [...]

Juneteenth: Proof That Even Our Freedom Is Seen as âToo Much”
Juneteenth is not just a holiday. It is a mirror [...]

How People Prompt or Lure Women to Prove Their Worth
"Why doesn't she leave? Why did she go back?"
We don't spen [...]

Lucy Diggs Slowe: She Protected Us in Silence So We Could One Day Speak
âBecause boundaried spaces donât build themselvesâsomeone has [...]