Category: Self Love

Don’t Ignore the History and Connection of Accountability Evasion in Violence, Abuse, and Racism (w/ podcast episode)
So we have reached the place where the n-word is actually Black Americ [...]

Why You May Want to Unfollow People Who Willfully Turn a Blind Eye to Power Imbalance
As Big Brother Legend on X.com says, "I unfollow (Black) people who do [...]

The Insidious Nature of Racial Stress
Many Black people have endured generations of:
âItâs not that bad.ââY [...]

When âNothing Will Happenâ Isnât a Safety Plan: Asking About Real Safeguards
âIf your confidence turns out to be misplaced, what protections exist [...]

Dr. Tracey Marks: Why Self-Love Has Nothing to Do with Confidence
Chapters 0:00 â Caring relationships that still feel distant 0:18 â Wh [...]

Survivor Affirmations: Black History Month…. Lets Go!
Updated from January 28, 2024Black History Month is not a highligh [...]

Black History Month Means Honoring the Humanity of the Women Who Loved Us Here (Musical Playlist Included)
 updated from 2/2/ 2025 Without Black women, the miracl [...]

When Survival Is Mistaken for Consent: Black Women, Weaponized Ignorance, and the Right to Refuse
It is not normal for people to know little to nothing about youâand st [...]

People Donât Fear Your Inner World. They Fear Being Controlled by It.
When I was in college earning my degree in Organizational Management a [...]

Anger Isnât Ruining Your Healing. Silence Did. (10 Quick Reclamation Tips)
For a long time, many of us were taught that anger was the danger.[...]