Category: Safe Boundaried Spaces

đŹ Weâre Not Just Watching the StoryâWeâre Being Told Who Weâre Allowed to Be
At We Survive Abuse, we talk a lot about truth, survival, and the po [...]

10 Ways Faux Concern About Cheek Swabs in Sports Does Not Protect Black WomenâIt Exploits Us
Thereâs been a growing outcry that cheek swabs to confirm male and f [...]

No, Youâre Not Colorist Just for Disliking a Dark-Skinned Black Woman ArtistâBut Letâs Talk About How You Express It
Letâs be real for a moment. You are not automatically colorist for dis [...]

Green Flags: The Quiet Ways People Show You Theyâre Safe
đ Green Flags in Other People đą They listen to understand, not just [...]

âđŸ First, We Fight for Our Safety.
Then, We Fight for Our Story.(And We Are Tired.)
She survived.That sh [...]

We Told You.
We told you.We warned you.We begged you to listen.
We tried to expl [...]

“Theyâll Be Raped Anywayâ Is Not a StrategyâItâs Cowardly a Surrender
Some people are not "foxhole" people. They surrender mid-battle.
Yo [...]

Donât Be Fooled: Giving Away Your Rights Isnât Liberation
They told you it was clever.Told you it was edgy.Told you it was rev [...]

We Called It Rape Culture for a Reason. And That Reason Still Exists
There was a time when we named things clearly.
We called it rape cult [...]

Your Mind is Your Strongest WeaponâKeep It Sharp, Keep It Healed
Self-mastery is the foundation of the most powerful and effective advo [...]