Category: Safety

What Women Are Still Waiting to Hear (podcast episode)
Why won't they say our names? In an era w [...]

The New Rules of Manipulation: 12 Things Every Woman and Girl Should Know
Much of today's manipulation no longer looks openly threatenin [...]

Our History Teaches Us to Protect What Remains
"If you are silent about your pain, they'll kill you and say y [...]

This Is Not Confusion. It Is Memory: Black Women, Language, and the Right to Self-Definition.
updated from June 2025
This history is not symbolic. It is sp [...]

Women’s Health and Safety Watch: June 2026
1. Post-separation violenceWomen are worried a [...]

Part 2: Why I Resist Diluted Language
But self-knowledgeBut self-knowledgeThe reason I refuse dilu [...]

You Deserve Safety—Even When You’re Just Trying to Keep Going
Some of us were never told that we deserved to feel safe.W [...]

15 Reasons a Woman’s Silence Does Not Mean She Is Comfortable
One of the most dangerous assumptions in the world is [...]

Every Solution Was Rejected Because Access Was the Goal: Understanding Forced Access, Coercion, and Why So Many Women Feel Pressured to Explain Themselves
A woman asks for safety.
Everyone else asks for evidence.
&n [...]

Juneteenth: Proof That Even Our Freedom Is Seen as “Too Much”
Juneteenth is not just a holiday. It is a mirror [...]