Category: Abuse of Power

đ€ It Isnât Discipline. Itâs Domination Disguised as a Lesson.
(Inspired by âHow Abusers Place Themselves Above Accountabilityâ â WeS [...]

When Cruelty Pretends to Be Care: The Lie Behind âI Was Just Teaching You a Lesson
All of this, "we didn't do the right thing to to teach you a lesson." [...]

Before You Judge, Listen: Black Menâs Medical Trauma Is Real
I'm not just speaking from a place of advocacy to victims. I'm speakin [...]

When Survivors Speak, They Name the WoundâNot the Excuse (w/affirmations)
For abusive persons, there are few human beings perfect enough to be [...]

And Why Don’t Black Women Call the Police? (Graphic video posted by Ben Crump)
âThe Constitution they wrote was designed to protect the rights of w [...]

They Called It Victimhood. I Call It Rising.
After abuse, itâs common to be met with silence when youâre hurting â [...]

The Survival Doll Trap: A Caution
Stay away from people who canât wait to see you step into danger, but [...]

They Want Us Only in the StreetsâBut We Carry Resistance Everywhere
Resistance Wears Many Faces
Too often, when people talk about resis [...]

‘ER’ Star Anthony Edwards Says Hollywood Big Shot Molested Him As A Teen
As an advocate, I have worked with male Survivors as colleagues, as a [...]

Austin Wolfe Sentencing: What It Means for Survivors, Justice, and the Black Gay Community (w/audio)
The news of Austin Wolfeâs sentencing has landed heavily. Once a vis [...]