Loving Safely

  updated from April 8 2025 Some lies don’t look like lies.They wear the clothing of “tradition,” “culture,” “love,” or “femininity.”But if you look closer, you’ll see the bruises they …

originally published in 2025 There is a dangerous lie being whispered and shouted in this world:That a woman is a feeling.That our existence—our lives, our flesh, our blood, our history—is …

updated from Dec. 13 2025 First of all, before I say anything else, for your own survival, believe her. You are growing awareness of who benefits from these declarations. When …

Identity is not a shield. A label is not a character reference. A man can be kind in public and entitled in private. A man can understand oppression and still …

“People online kept saying, ‘Preferences are for pizza. Not people.’ I understood what they were trying to say. But something about that comparison didn’t sit right. My grandmothers never talked …

Survivor Affirmation I honor my own no. I honor yours too. Real love does not ask me to abandon either one. There is something sacred in this — a person’s …

updated from June 9. 2025 It’s so tricky out here these days… Let’s make something abundantly clear: Being an ally to a group, a cause, or a community does not …

It’s dating. Cuts WILL be made. But too many people have a problem with women being the ones doing the cutting.  People are having a difficult time adjusting. The time …

For generations, women endured violence that society treated as a private problem. This is the story of how finding the right words changed law, culture, and countless lives. Before It …

Some of us were never told that we deserved to feel safe.We were told to keep going.To be strong.To not make a scene.To forgive.To forget.To move on. So we did.We …