Category: Manipulation
đ Start Noticing: Saying No Is Not Hate
You may want to start observing the number of times men declar [...]
When Black Women Say No: The Punishment Is Public
"If I canât have her love, Iâll go to war against her peace"
Some m [...]
âď¸ The System May Not Bring ClosureâBut You Still Have a Right to Choose
Letâs tell the truth:You may not find closure in the American justic [...]
đ¨ Silence Isnât Neutral. Itâs Permission.
Letâs talk about the men who say:
âI donât get involved in drama.ââ [...]
đ¨ Fear-Based Manipulation Isnât LoveâItâs Control Dressed as Concern
Fear-Based ManipulationDefinition: Using hypothetical threats or wor [...]
đĽ Dating Preference Policing Is Real â And Itâs Disrespectful
âWhy are you still single?ââYou need to lower your standards.ââYou're [...]
Predators Donât Play by the Same Rules
Thereâs something deeply dangerous about how weâre taught to think abo [...]
In Safety-Centered SpacesâLetâs Tell the Truth About Invasion
When it comes to women and girls, invasion looks like:
Forc [...]
Selective Advocacy Syndrome: When They Show Up for Ego, Not Justice
They say they care about equality.They say they believe in fairness.T [...]
Misogynist Gaslighting: The Reversal That Keeps Women Unsafe
Misogynist gaslighting is not just individual.It's systemic, strategic [...]
Performative Allyship: When the Applause Is Louder Than the Protection
Thereâs a kind of allyship that shows up only when the lights are on.W [...]
Weaponized Moralism: The Silence That Screams
They call it compassion.But only when it protects male access.
They c [...]
When Men Encourage Boundary Violations, Women Pay the Price
Why Itâs WrongâAnd Sometimes Criminalâfor Men to Overrule a Womanâs âN [...]
She Lied to Herself First: How Women Protect Harmful MenâAnd Turn on Other Women
Thereâs a quiet lie that echoes through many womenâs lives.A lie whi [...]
đ We donât negotiate safety
âď¸ Some Things Are Black and White
Yes means safety.No means protecti [...]
đ¨ When Power Imbalances Are Ignoredâand Victims Get Hurt
In schools, faith communities, workplaces, and even families, efforts [...]
“She Wasnât Told He Killed Before: The Tragic Workplace Murder of Kerri Harris and the Warning Signs We Canât Ignore”
Women are significantly more likely to be victims of stalking.
Appr [...]
Respect Is Supposed to Be MutualâBut Women Know Better
Respect is supposed to be mutual.But you wouldnât know that if you lis [...]
Detachment Is Not ColdnessâItâs Protection
They told you to go back.To be patient.To âlove him through it.âTo pou [...]
Being Protective Is Good: Why You Donât Have to Choose Between Kindness and Boundaries
In todayâs worldâespecially in progressive spacesâmany women are made [...]