Category: Relationships
đ© Entitlement to Womenâs Choices Is MisogynyâNo Matter Who It Comes From
Some men hear ânoâ and immediately rewrite the story in their heads:âS [...]
Misogynist Gaslighting: The Reversal That Keeps Women Unsafe
Misogynist gaslighting is not just individual.It's systemic, strategic [...]
Weaponized Moralism: The Silence That Screams
They call it compassion.But only when it protects male access.
They c [...]
Detachment Is Not ColdnessâItâs Protection
They told you to go back.To be patient.To âlove him through it.âTo pou [...]
You Can Love People and Still Set Firm, Protective Boundaries
Theyâll tell you that love means saying "yes".That love means flexibil [...]
E. Lynn Harris: The Visionary Black Author Who Gave Us Stories Weâd Never SeenâBut Always Needed
Long before mainstream platforms embraced diverse stories, he was doin [...]
đŻ What We Will Not Be Prioritizing When Women Demand Safety, Health & Well-Being
When women cry out for justice, safety, healing, and the right to ex [...]
The Media Is Teaching Women to Be Silent About Violence. Even Women in Media.
We need to name it.
The mediaâmainstream and socialâisn't just failin [...]
đ§š The Dangerous Oversight in Some “Alternative Justice” Conversations
In the push for restorative or alternative justice, one painful real [...]
đš Listen Closely. Believe Them.
Too many people overlook this. We want to believe that people are be [...]
Your Defense of Them Is a Betrayal of Me
Letâs say this out loudâfor the ones still doubting themselves.For the [...]
Early Warning Signs of an Abusive Partner
What Love Should Never Cost You
Before abuse becomes obvious, it of [...]
âBut Is It Abuse?â â The Quiet Ways Harm Hides in Plain Sight
Every day, people ask themselves:"Is this abuse?"
Because sometimes t [...]
Call Him What? When Abusers & Traffickers Demand to Be Named Something Special
⊠by WeSurviveAbuse.com
In courtroom after courtroom, from high-pro [...]
You Were Always Worth LovingâThey Just Werenât Capable of Giving It
There are people who will make you question everything good about yo [...]
Your Voice Was Never the ProblemâTheir Comfort with Harm Was
They told you to lower your voice.To be more careful.To stop "bringing [...]
You Canât Unsee What You Survived
They thought if they said sorry enough times,youâd forget how many t [...]
A Lot of Movements Need Black Women. But Do They Value Us?
....to gain some reciprocity
Lauryn Hill/X FactorWe see it ev [...]
It Wasnât Just His Girlfriends: A Pattern of Harm, a Society of Silence
Too often, when men like Sean âDiddyâ Combs are accused of vio [...]
Shaming Survivors Is How You Build an Abuserâs Paradise
You want to know how abusers thrive in families, churches, and communi [...]