Category: Self Worth
đ Gullible Isnât Always What You Think It Is: 10 Questions to Reclaim Your Mind
Some women believe that as long as they arenât like those religious [...]
đ Start Noticing: Saying No Is Not Hate
You may want to start observing the number of times men declar [...]
đŁ A Hard Truth: You Do Not Have to Play the Role They Assigned You
Letâs begin here:You are not required to play a role in someone elseâs [...]
When Black Women Say No: The Punishment Is Public
"If I canât have her love, Iâll go to war against her peace"
Some m [...]
â ď¸ They Know. And Still, They Point You Toward the Danger.
Understand this:
When men tell youâwarn youâjoke with youabout how [...]
đ¨ Fear-Based Manipulation Isnât LoveâItâs Control Dressed as Concern
Fear-Based ManipulationDefinition: Using hypothetical threats or wor [...]
đŻWeaponized Hypotheticals Are Not Harmless â Theyâre Punishment for a Womanâs Freedom
Weaponized HypotheticalsDefinition: When peopleâoften menâcreate imagi [...]
đŠ Entitlement to Womenâs Choices Is MisogynyâNo Matter Who It Comes From
Some men hear ânoâ and immediately rewrite the story in their heads:âS [...]
What Stays When You Start Healing
We talk a lot about what you lose when you heal:The people who walk [...]
Who Leaves When You Start Healing
They donât always leave when youâre breaking.Sometimes they leave wh [...]
Healing Changed MeâAnd Some People Only Loved the Version of Me Who Didnât Know Her Worth
A post for the Survivor whoâs outgrowing relationships built on thei [...]
Predators Donât Play by the Same Rules
Thereâs something deeply dangerous about how weâre taught to think abo [...]
Dignity Is Not Bitterness: Elder Women Deserve Safety, Too
Aging should not mean surrendering safety.Growing older should not m [...]
In Safety-Centered SpacesâLetâs Tell the Truth About Invasion
When it comes to women and girls, invasion looks like:
Forc [...]
Male Access Supremacy: When Entitlement Disguises Itself as Equality
There is a belief too many refuse to nameâbecause to name it would rev [...]
Selective Advocacy Syndrome: When They Show Up for Ego, Not Justice
They say they care about equality.They say they believe in fairness.T [...]
Misogynist Gaslighting: The Reversal That Keeps Women Unsafe
Misogynist gaslighting is not just individual.It's systemic, strategic [...]
Performative Allyship: When the Applause Is Louder Than the Protection
Thereâs a kind of allyship that shows up only when the lights are on.W [...]
You See Our Blackness, But Not Our Bruises
We are not just Black.We are not just women.We are Black womenâand [...]
Weaponized Moralism: The Silence That Screams
They call it compassion.But only when it protects male access.
They c [...]