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Survivor Affirmations: I Have a Right to Safety and Dignity Regardless of Male Desires

   We do not have to hold on to the potentially dangerous idea that a male's needs come first. Above all others. Above our own. Above our c

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 We do not have to hold on to the potentially
dangerous idea that a
male’s needs come first.
Above all others.
Above our own.
Above our children’s.

 

 

Many males out there are great human beings but we must put ourselves and our children’s safety FIRST more often than we do because those who are not can be extremely violent. Like terrorists.

 Even as a safety precaution. Especially as a safety precaution.

This video is an illustration. 

May these souls rest in eternal peace. 

Every single society on this planet prioritizes male desires far too often. 

 


 

I Have a Right to Privacy, Safety, and Dignity

Many men are wonderful human beings. But too often, women and children are asked to gamble with safety — when those who are not can be as destructive as terrorists.

Safety precautions aren’t optional; they are essential.

This truth is not about hate. It’s about survival.
This video is one illustration. May those souls rest in eternal peace.

Every society on this planet prioritizes male desires too often — at the expense of women’s safety and dignity.


Since Childhood, I Knew Two Things

  • I knew there were people who held hateful, distorted ideas about me because of my skin color and my sex.

  • I also knew, because I was nurtured and loved, that I am valued, worthy, unique, and cherished.

Both truths shaped me. But like every other woman, I still have an undeniable right: to safety and protection from male violence — regardless of what any man believes about himself.


My Rights Are Non-Negotiable

  • My worth is defined by my existence, not by anyone’s desire.

  • My safety and dignity are rights, not privileges.

  • My privacy is not open to debate.

If a man wakes up believing he is divinely entitled to every woman, that is between him and his treatment team. I still have a right to privacy, safety, and dignity.

If a husband thinks his marriage entitles him to enter women’s private spaces, his belief does not override my rights.

If a father believes he must follow his daughter into spaces designed for women, one of us must step out — because my right to privacy stands.

If a man thinks, “If I can’t have her, no one can,” his obsession does not erase my safety.


Boundaries and Dignity

  • My boundaries are valid.

  • My voice and choices matter.

  • My dignity is not negotiable.

I will not compromise my safety to accommodate someone else’s fantasies, traditions, or demands.


The Call

Stop demanding that women and girls contort our lives to accommodate what men think or believe.

  • My safety is a priority.

  • My dignity is a priority.

  • My privacy is a priority.

These are not requests. They are rights.
They are non-negotiable.

Women and girls are entitled to exist freely, safely, and with dignity. Always.

 

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