Why Do They Say We’re “Against Men” Just Because We Want to Be Safe?

Don’t fall for it.

Promise yourself that you will not fall for it.
Don’t fall for the guilt traps, the twisting of truth, the smooth talk that tells you you’re “against men” because you stand up for your right to be safe.

Don’t fall for the lie that demanding health, peace, and fairness makes you cold or bitter.
It makes you wide awake and aware.
It makes you responsible for your own life.
It makes you one of the women who refuses to keep paying the world with her body, her silence, and her suffering just to be accepted.

They will say you’re angry — but it’s not anger, it’s clarity.
They will say you’re divisive — but it’s not division, it’s discernment.
They will say you’re “against men” — but it’s not hate, it’s boundaries.

We were never created to live in fear of violence, or to negotiate for safety as if it’s a privilege.
Safety is not a prize you win for good behavior — it’s your right as a human being.

So don’t fall for the shaming.
Don’t fall for the rewriting of your story.
You are not hard — you are healed enough to stop letting people mistreat you.
You are not bitter — you are finally refusing to sweeten poison just to be liked.

You are not against men.
You are for women.
For peace.
For the right to rest without threat.
For the right to walk through this life unafraid.

Affirmation:
I will not shrink to make danger comfortable. I choose safety, truth, and peace — without apology.