"You looked fine." "I saw you on television." But what if that wasn't me?What if I wasn't on television? Maybe it was Will Smith. Or Oprah. Or Bill
“You looked fine.”
“I saw you on television.”
But what if that wasn’t me?
What if I wasn’t on television?
Maybe it was Will Smith. Or Oprah. Or Bill Cosby.
Famous. Smiling. Dressed up. Entertaining.
✖️ The Lie of Representation as Reality
Imagine you’re from a people who have survived hell—
Centuries of it.
But your fellow citizens don’t know about that hell.
They’re not curious.
They don’t want to learn.
They just saw a rerun.
A movie.
A talk show.
And what they saw was you—
happy, wealthy, humorous, well-dressed.
You must be doing just fine.
🎠Media as Misdirection
You weren’t at Selma.
You weren’t redlined.
You weren’t stopped and frisked.
You weren’t gunned down, overpoliced, underprotected, or misdiagnosed.
You were—what?
Dancing in a Bel Air mansion?
Laughing at 4 p.m. on syndicated TV?
Wearing designer shoes with a high-powered mom and doctor dad?
Or wait—
Didn’t you move in with your Aunt and Uncle in Bel Air?
They can’t keep up.
But that’s okay.
You’re funny. You’re cool.
You make them feel good.
🧠The Real Cost of the “Feel-Good Black Friend” Narrative
When people confuse entertainment visibility with equality,
when laughter becomes a substitute for justice,
when sitcoms become history lessons for people who refuse to open a book—
we are in danger.
This is how people convince themselves racism is over.
Because their favorite Black character didn’t seem angry.
Didn’t cry on-screen.
Didn’t bleed.
🧨 Myth: “If I See You on Screen, You Must Be Free.”
📉 Truth: Visibility is not safety.
📉 Truth: Representation is not reparation.
📉 Truth: Watching us isn’t the same as knowing us.
📉 Truth: A few faces on screen don’t free the millions still locked in struggle.
✊🏾 Don’t Confuse the Highlight Reel with the Whole Story
We are not just who you see when you turn on the TV.
We are who you ignored when you turned it off.
We are still here. Still fighting. Still healing. Still telling the truth.
So no—
That wasn’t me you saw on television.
But this voice? These words? This truth?
This is me.
