There are few heartbreaks more jarring than this:Realizing someone you admire is cheering for those who endanger children. And it cuts deeper when
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There are few heartbreaks more jarring than this:
Realizing someone you admire is cheering for those who endanger children.
And it cuts deeper when it’s not strangers.
It’s…
Beloved family members
Respected colleagues
Trusted friends
Elders you once leaned on for wisdom
When they side with those seeking unfettered access to children,
something breaks wide open.
😔 What That Feels Like:
A gut punch to your intuition
A whisper of panic: “Am I the only one who sees this?”
A spiritual betrayal: “How can they ignore what they once taught me to protect?”
A dizzying grief: “Are they silent out of fear—or allegiance?”
This isn’t a debate.
It’s grief.
🛑 The Danger of Misplaced Loyalty
Some folks confuse:
Advocacy with “hate”
Boundaries with “judgment”
Protection with “paranoia”
They’re louder about adult inclusion
than they are about child protection.
Elders used to say:
“When the wolves dress like shepherds, watch who keeps handing them keys to the gates.”
😔 The Loneliness of Seeing Clearly
When you see the danger, others might:
Call you “extreme”
Accuse you of “overreacting”
Push you to keep quiet to avoid “drama”
But listen…
Truth is not cruelty.
Discernment is not hate.
And as the elders said: “Just because the room is silent, don’t mean you’re wrong.”
🧭 You Are Not Alone
If you feel:
Dismissed by people who should know better
Heartbroken by the silence of “allies”
Exposed for saying what others are too scared to say…
Please hear this:
Your clarity is a gift.
Your courage is not the problem.
Their silence is.
🗣 What You Can Say (and still sleep at night):
“Children’s safety is not a controversial stance.”
“If safety boundaries offend someone, that’s a red flag.”
“We protect children first. Everything else comes second.”
“Love doesn’t ask us to abandon discernment.”
🌱 The Truth Still Matters
Even when it costs you connection.
Even when it makes the room uncomfortable.
Even when people you love disappoint you.
“Right is still right—if nobody’s doing it.
And wrong is still wrong—if everybody’s clapping.”
So speak it.
Hold it.
Protect the vulnerable.
Let your voice be the one that breaks the silence wide open.
