Category: Boundaries

They Called You Too Much—But What You Were Was Too Aware
You were never too much.You were too awake.
You noticed what others [...]

You Weren’t Difficult. You Were Just Finally Done Pretending It Didn’t Hurt
They called you difficult.Unreasonable.Too sensitive.Hard to love.
[...]

Who Is Deserving of Black Women’s Solidarity?
There are furious debates about this behind closed doors. Personally [...]

Stop Shaming Survivors. Start Shaming Abusers.
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Survivors should not be met with interrogation, [...]

You’re Not Her Judge. You’re Not Even Helpful.
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The internet is full of people who think that [...]

Stay Out of Her Healing, You Weren’t There.
This is not about whether you think she was right or wrong.This is not [...]

💜 20 Ways to Support Celebrity Women Who Protect Themselves from Abuse
Before we cheer for progress, we must reckon with our past.Tina Turn [...]

Perpetrator Fragility: When He Fears Exposure More Than Reflection
Perpetrator fragility is a concept used to describe how individuals—mo [...]

✋🏽 When Accountability Feels Like an Attack to Him
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Some men don’t fear the harm they cause.They fea [...]

Her Story Isn’t About Weakness. It’s About Knowing Who Can’t Be Trusted
Celebrity trials that encompass domestic violence and rape annoy m [...]