Category: Civil Rights & Social Justice
đ Theyâve Been Ignoring Our Pain for Generations. But We Still Feel It.
On yesterday there was a non-subtle outcry on at least one social me [...]
đ© Red Flag: When Someone Is Offended by Your Boundaries
Pay attention.
If someoneâa person, a group, a movement, a âfriend,â [...]
đ« You Can Be in a Movementâand Still Be Submissive
Letâs talk about something that doesnât get said enough:
Just becau [...]
đ Start Noticing: Saying No Is Not Hate
You may want to start observing the number of times men declare that [...]
âïž The System May Not Bring ClosureâBut You Still Have a Right to Choose
Letâs tell the truth:You may not find closure in the American justic [...]
đŻWeaponized Hypotheticals Are Not Harmless â Theyâre Punishment for a Womanâs Freedom
Weaponized HypotheticalsDefinition: When peopleâoften menâcreate imagi [...]
Predators Donât Play by the Same Rules
Thereâs something deeply dangerous about how weâre taught to think abo [...]
Dignity Is Not Bitterness: Elder Women Deserve Safety, Too
Aging should not mean surrendering safety.Growing older should not m [...]
In Safety-Centered SpacesâLetâs Tell the Truth About Invasion
When it comes to women and girls, invasion looks like:
Forc [...]
Selective Advocacy Syndrome: When They Show Up for Ego, Not Justice
They say they care about equality.They say they believe in fairness.T [...]
Misogynist Gaslighting: The Reversal That Keeps Women Unsafe
Misogynist gaslighting is not just individual.It's systemic, strategic [...]
Performative Allyship: When the Applause Is Louder Than the Protection
Thereâs a kind of allyship that shows up only when the lights are on.W [...]
Weaponized Moralism: The Silence That Screams
They call it compassion.But only when it protects male access.
They c [...]
âWhy All Women Deserve to Be Heard When Speaking About Violence and AbuseâNot Just the Powerfulâ
For many men, all of life is a measuring contest.Who has more. Who i [...]
She Lied to Herself First: How Women Protect Harmful MenâAnd Turn on Other Women
Thereâs a quiet lie that echoes through many womenâs lives.A lie whi [...]
The Lie She Tells Herself: When Women Protect the Men Who Harm
"I'd lie for you. I'd die for you. Ride or die for you"- a woman or gi [...]
âïž How Alternative Justice Can Mimic Harmful Forgiveness Pressure
We live in a world where speaking out against violenceâespecially vi [...]
Respect Is Supposed to Be MutualâBut Women Know Better
Respect is supposed to be mutual.But you wouldnât know that if you lis [...]

WÄhine MÄori Deserve SafetyâNot Silence
I'm circling back to this. Around Christmas time 2024 I saw this viral [...]
Being Protective Is Good: Why You Donât Have to Choose Between Kindness and Boundaries
In todayâs worldâespecially in progressive spacesâmany women are made [...]