Category: Safe Boundaried Spaces
Dear Survivor: You Were Not Born to Absorb Abuse or Protect Harmful Men
A Message for Every Woman Who Was Taught to Shrink Herself to Keep the [...]
đ© When His Praise Requires Another Womanâs Demeaning: Thatâs Not a ComplimentâThatâs a Red Flag
At first, you felt flattered.He spoke highly of you. Said you were dif [...]
When Someone You Love Defends the People Who Harm Children
There are few heartbreaks more jarring than this:Realizing someone y [...]
When Chaos Is a Weapon: How Some Partners Use Crisis to Control You
And why youâre not âmeanâ for wanting peaceIt starts with a ba [...]
When the System Calls It a Catfight: The Silencing of Black Lesbian Survivors
A Survivor-centered truth from an advocate who has witnessed too much [...]
đš Pregnancy Shouldnât Be a Death Sentence
Letâs tell the truthâpregnancy should never be a death sentence.
Bu [...]
The Manifestation of Emotional Abuse Can Alter Your Life? – Out Loud With Claudia Jordan
âPeople think itâs easy to just leave a toxic relationship. But wh [...]
đ© 5 Signs Youâre Facing Control Disguised as Concern
1. They Center Their Comfort Over Your Safety
If your boundary causes [...]
đ Allyship Is Not a Dating Obligation
Letâs make something abundantly clear:
Being an ally to a group, a [...]
đ« You Can Be in a Movementâand Still Be Submissive
Letâs talk about something that doesnât get said enough:
Just becau [...]
đ Start Noticing: Saying No Is Not Hate
You may want to start observing the number of times men declare that [...]
đŁ A Hard Truth: You Do Not Have to Play the Role They Assigned You
Letâs begin here:You are not required to play a role in someone elseâs [...]
đš Silence Isnât Neutral. Itâs Permission.
Letâs talk about the men who say:
âI donât get involved in drama.ââ [...]
đ© Entitlement to Womenâs Choices Is MisogynyâNo Matter Who It Comes From
Some men hear ânoâ and immediately rewrite the story in their heads:âS [...]
Predators Donât Play by the Same Rules
Thereâs something deeply dangerous about how weâre taught to think abo [...]
Dignity Is Not Bitterness: Elder Women Deserve Safety, Too
Aging should not mean surrendering safety.Growing older should not m [...]
In Safety-Centered SpacesâLetâs Tell the Truth About Invasion
When it comes to women and girls, invasion looks like:
Forc [...]
Male Access Supremacy: When Entitlement Disguises Itself as Equality
There is a belief too many refuse to nameâbecause to name it would rev [...]
Selective Advocacy Syndrome: When They Show Up for Ego, Not Justice
They say they care about equality.They say they believe in fairness.T [...]
