Category: Safe Boundaried Spaces
We Keep Asking Women to Be Kinder. Who Is Asking Why Men Are Not Kinder?
If I read one more article in a mainstream media publication asking
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Calling Women “Hateful” for Wanting Safety Is Abuse Dressed in Decorum
updated from June 3 2025
Let’s name this for what it is:
When poli [...]
And The Global Pressure for Women’s Submission Continues….
Submission is not always announced by the word "submit." Sometimes sub [...]
10 Dangerous Beliefs That Have Harmed Women Around the World
updated from April 8 2025
Some lies don’t look like lies.They [...]
We Cannot Keep Telling Women to Be More Accommodating While Warning Them That Manipulation Is Becoming Harder to Detect
Something strange is happening in the advice women are being given.
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Before You Can Recognize Safety, Maybe You Need to Know What Safety Feels Like
We spend a lot of time teaching women how to recognize danger. Learn t [...]
Less Policing Women’s Relationships. More Recognizing the Patterns Around Us.
If we can take our eyes off the individual women long enough to study [...]
When Men Encourage Boundary Violations, Women Pay the Price
updated from June 7 2025
Why It’s Wrong—And Sometimes Criminal—for Me [...]
Women Have Been Violently Punished for Telling the Truth for Centuries
I do not owe anyone a smaller truth so they can maintain a larger li [...]
Trauma Does Not Always Look Like Trauma
We tend to imagine trauma as someone crying when they remember somethi [...]