Category: Abuse of Power
đ Some Words Need DefiningâLike Victimhood
âIf they took your voice, take it back. If they laughed at your stor [...]
Lobotomies and Trust Issues: The Historic Reasons Black Folks Avoid Therapy (w/links)
Listen, followers of my work know that I have been open about getting [...]
đŻď¸ The Truth About âVictimhoodâ as an Insult
There is a lot going on in the world. But crimes against womenâespecia [...]
How Womenâs Pain Is Minimized to Keep Men Comfortable
If there were no men in the room,no men in the equation,no men to prot [...]
This Is My Body. Not a Public Utility.
Every damn time we try to talk about our bodies, our boundaries, our s [...]
đĽ What Is Gaslighting?
Gaslighting is when someone tries to make you doubt your own realityây [...]
The Real Exclusion Happens When We Refuse to Face the Truth: Male on Male Violence
It is not women who are being exclusionary when we protect our spaces. [...]
No One is Like Us. Women Fight Differently
Women fight differently.
When the Taliban ordered Afghan women not [...]
I’m Not Angry at Other Women â Iâm Committed to the Whole Truth
I'm not angry at other women.Not even the ones who shame, silence, or [...]
Violence Against Women Always Looks for an Inside Woman
Like most acts of violence against women,invasion of boundaries doesnâ [...]
Sisterhood Isn’t a Cage: Reject the Love Bombs That Protect Male Violence
Some women will drench you in compliments, promises, and affection âno [...]
When “Sisterhood” is a Setup: The Weaponization of Love Bombing to Enforce Male Violence
Watching this got me thinking....... Because at her lowest, a woman wh [...]
Coercion in Disguise: When Love Asks You to Lie
When someone pressures a woman to lie, to go against her beliefs, her [...]
A Society That Centers Harmful Males Will Never Have TrustâAnd It Doesnât Deserve It
Trust is not a gift.Trust is built.Earned.Sustained through action, pr [...]
When âI Amâ Becomes a Demand
âI amâŚâTwo of the most powerful words a person can speak.
In the righ [...]
There Are No Magic Words That Grant Access to Our Boundaries
There are no magic words.
No title, no role, no identity, no costume, [...]
What Is Trauma? A Simple Explanation (w/Quotes)
*Note: This is meant to be an elementary explanation. It came out of [...]
The âHelperâ Mandate is Hurting Us
It whispers to Black peopleâespecially Black women âthat we are here t [...]
We Donât Owe Our Endurance to Racism
They say:âNow is not the time.ââWeâre all suffering right now.ââDonâ [...]
The Pain They Tell You to Swallow: On Disrespect, Dehumanization, and the Lie of Strength
They say, âNowâs not the time.âThey say, âItâs not that serious.âThey [...]
