Category: Loving Safely

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📢 Boundaries Are My Vitamins—And I Take Them Daily

📢 Boundaries Are My Vitamins—And I Take Them Daily

You ever been around somebody who drains your energy just by texting [...]
Twice as Good Doesn’t Stop at the Boardroom

Twice as Good Doesn’t Stop at the Boardroom

Black Women Must Be Twice as Vigilant About Safety—Because We Are Rare [...]
What to Say to the Inner Voice That Still Blames You

What to Say to the Inner Voice That Still Blames You

(And Why That Voice Isn’t the Truth) You’ve left the relationsh [...]
You Shrink So Others Don’t Feel Threatened

You Shrink So Others Don’t Feel Threatened

But What Happens When You Stop? The Sign:You minimize your gifts, you [...]
Self-Abandonment: How Survivors Can Come Home to Themselves

Self-Abandonment: How Survivors Can Come Home to Themselves

Self-abandonment is one of the most overlooked consequences of survivi [...]
12 Quiet Ways Self-Abandonment Shows Up

12 Quiet Ways Self-Abandonment Shows Up

(And How to Come Home to Yourself) Self-abandonment isn’t always loud [...]
Don’t Be Tricked Into Serving What Would Never Save You

Don’t Be Tricked Into Serving What Would Never Save You

Avoid letting any man—no matter how soft his tone, poetic his struggle [...]
Say It With Your Chest: Black Victims Deserve Justice—No Exceptions

Say It With Your Chest: Black Victims Deserve Justice—No Exceptions

Stop weaponizing white men’s impunity to excuse Black men’s predation. [...]
🌙 Future Faking: When Promises Become a Trap

🌙 Future Faking: When Promises Become a Trap

Let’s talk about something a lot of Survivors don’t even know has a [...]
💣 Beauty as a Battlefield: When We Compete, They Win

💣 Beauty as a Battlefield: When We Compete, They Win

Let’s tell the truth:This world wants women to be at war with each o [...]
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