Category: Loving Safely
Before You Put Up the House: What Mattie Michael Taught Us About the Way Women Love
Retracing Mattie Michael’s Footsteps: Sometimes We Have to Ask Why We [...]
If You Love Us, Why Are You Fighting for the Right to Hurt Us?
Harm does not always arrive announcing itself as hatred. Sometimes it [...]
10 Dangerous Beliefs That Have Harmed Women Around the World
updated from April 8 2025
Some lies don’t look like lies.They [...]
Women Are Not a Feeling. We Are Not Yours to Define.
originally published in 2025
There is a dangerous lie being whisper [...]
“Why Do Her Posts Always Seem to Reassure Men, Not Women?”
updated from Dec. 13 2025First of all, before I say anything else, [...]
10 Ways Men of Any Identity Still Treat Women Like a Resource Instead of a Human Being
Identity is not a shield. A label is not a character reference. A man [...]
Dating Preferences Aren’t Just Preferences. Women Have Always Been Choosing Something Deeper.
"People online kept saying, 'Preferences are for pizza. Not people.'
[...]
Her No Is a Complete Sentence
Survivor AffirmationI honor my own no.
I honor yours too.
Re [...]
📌Allyship Doesn’t Come With a Dating Requirement — Your Body Was Never Part of the Deal
updated from June 9. 2025
It's so tricky out here these days...
Let’ [...]
“Interrogate Your Choices” Isn’t Advice. It’s a Leash.
It's dating. Cuts WILL be made. But too many people have a problem wit [...]