Category: Loving Safely
“Why Do Her Posts Always Seem to Reassure Men, Not Women?”
updated from Dec. 13 2025First of all, before I say anything else, [...]
10 Ways Men of Any Identity Still Treat Women Like a Resource Instead of a Human Being
Identity is not a shield. A label is not a character reference. A man [...]
Dating Preferences Aren’t Just Preferences. Women Have Always Been Choosing Something Deeper.
"People online kept saying, 'Preferences are for pizza. Not people.'
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Her No Is a Complete Sentence
Survivor AffirmationI honor my own no.
I honor yours too.
Re [...]
📌Allyship Doesn’t Come With a Dating Requirement — Your Body Was Never Part of the Deal
updated from June 9. 2025
It's so tricky out here these days...
Let’ [...]
“Interrogate Your Choices” Isn’t Advice. It’s a Leash.
It's dating. Cuts WILL be made. But too many people have a problem wit [...]
Before “Domestic Violence”: The History of How Women Finally Named Abuse
For generations, women endured violence that society treated as a priv [...]
You Deserve Safety—Even When You’re Just Trying to Keep Going
Some of us were never told that we deserved to feel safe.W [...]
The Bench at Maple and Ninth: When Men Decide Whether Women Get Boundaries (audio)
In this episode of We Survive Abuse, we step into a modern f [...]
A Mother Daughter Team Teaching Lessons on Teen Dating Violence: Carolyn Mosely and Ortralla Mosely (Resting in Power)
updated from 2/5/25
I exchanged emails with this mother, [...]