Category: RED FLAGS
š Tokenism Is Not Liberation: Why Hate Groups Tokenize Black Women
Some groups want our rhythm, our language, our beautyābut not our just [...]

šæ The Truth About Hate Groups & Their Harm to Women and Children
I speak the truth, even when it shakes the room.
My refusal to accept [...]
āš¾ First, We Fight for Our Safety.
Then, We Fight for Our Story.(And We Are Tired.)
She survived.That sh [...]
š Stop Saying āMen Wouldnāt Go That Far to Abuse Women
Please stop telling Survivors that "men wouldnāt go through the trou [...]

Some Truths Weāre Not Supposed to Say Out Loud- But We Will
We see you.Not with malice.Not with envy.But with ancient knowing.
We [...]

Gaslighting with a Grin: What Covert Bullying Really Looks Like
What Is Covert Bullying?
The Abuse You Canāt Always See
Not all bull [...]
She Would Not Submit
A mother of two was killed. Joyce Quaweay.
In front of children.By [...]
Donāt Be Fooled: Giving Away Your Rights Isnāt Liberation
They told you it was clever.Told you it was edgy.Told you it was rev [...]

We Called It Rape Culture for a Reason. And That Reason Still Exists
There was a time when we named things clearly.
We called it rape cult [...]

Green Flag: Safe Adult Males Stay Out of Female Spaces and Advocate for It
Miss us entirely with all of your hurdles for women to clear demonstra [...]
10 Reasons Men Invading Womenās SpacesāNo Matter How They IdentifyāIs Abusive, Misogynistic, Gynophobic, and Sexist
Womenās spaces exist for safety, healing, solidarity, and empowermentā [...]
When Control Becomes Abuse: Recognizing Coercive Control in Relationships
When a man dictates:who she gets to be and under what condit [...]
Male Predators Are Male: Why Language Matters for Survivor Justice
There is a dangerous misconception that rape is simply about lust or u [...]
Predators Are Not Always CharismaticāDonāt Be Fooled by the Stereotype
Many people have a picture in their minds of what a predator looks lik [...]

When Men Define Womanhood: The Power, The Harm, and The Resistance
For centuries, men have claimed the authority to define what a woman i [...]

How to Support Lesbian Friends in Abusive Relationships
As an advocate, you become familiar with the careful way that a woma [...]

5 Things You Should Know About the History of “Gender”
For many of us, the word gender feels like it has always existed in th [...]

30 Signs of a Dangerous Person: How to Protect Yourself from Manipulators & Predators
Unsafe people donāt always reveal their true nature immediately. The [...]