Category: RED FLAGS

Jeffrey Marsalis Was Called a “Prolific Rapist.” But What About the System That Kept Failing Women?
When people discuss Jeffrey Marsalis, they often describe him as a "pr [...]

🖤 12 Ways Black Women Are Harmed When Men Weaponize Oppressive Systems (video & audio)
🖤 1. Demanding Grace While Denying Ours
Black women are often expecte [...]

I Have Spent Too Many Years Listening to Women and Children to Believe That Saying Something Makes It True
I have spent more than 30 years working with women and children who ha [...]

You Can’t Say the F-Word on Television, but You Can Call Women Whores?
When insulting women is considered entertainment, but women obje [...]

Swatting Rape Survivors Should Carry Serious Criminal Penalties
Swatting a rape Survivor should be treated as a serious criminal offen [...]

When Someone Knows You’re Uncomfortable and Keeps Pushing: Recognizing Emotional Abuse
Emotional abuse can be difficult to explain in a society that struggle [...]

How Violence Prevention Is Treated as Worse Than the Violence Itself
When a woman asks for safety, listen to the danger she is describi [...]

Why Must a Rape Survivor Prove She Was a “Good Victim” Before We Believe Her?
The crime was the perpetrator’s choice, not the victim’s failure to be [...]

“He Was Only Looking”: Serial Killers, Peeping Toms, and the Danger of Dismissing Voyeurism
What the histories of convicted violent offenders teach us about sexua [...]

Voyeurism Is Not Harmless: 20 Things to Know About Peeping Toms, Consent, Stalking, and Institutional Pressure
Why deliberately watching someone during private moments deserves to b [...]