Category: RED FLAGS
The Lie She Tells Herself: When Women Protect the Men Who Harm
"I'd lie for you. I'd die for you. Ride or die for you"- a woman or gi [...]
đ We donât negotiate safety
âïž Some Things Are Black and White
Yes means safety.No means protecti [...]
“She Wasnât Told He Killed Before: The Tragic Workplace Murder of Kerri Harris and the Warning Signs We Canât Ignore”
Women are significantly more likely to be victims of stalking.
Appr [...]
Being Protective Is Good: Why You Donât Have to Choose Between Kindness and Boundaries
In todayâs worldâespecially in progressive spacesâmany women are made [...]
You Can Be Inclusive Without Abandoning Girls, Women, or Survivors
Inclusion should never come at the cost of someone elseâs safety.
But [...]
â Moral Gaslighting: When Women Asking for Safety Are Treated Like the Problem
What is moral gaslighting?
Moral gaslighting happens when women speak [...]
Calling Women âHatefulâ for Wanting Safety Is Abuse Dressed in Decorum
Letâs name this for what it is:
When politicians, media figures, or [...]
Visibility Isnât Safety. And Representation Isnât Protection.
We were told more women in power would mean more safety for all wome [...]
Why Some Voices Are Punished for Asking the Right Questions-Even By Fellow Women
Like Toni Morrison said, we get angry sometimes. So here it is.
We wa [...]
đ” Why So Many Social Media Platforms Are Against Naming Harm
Letâs tell the truth:Most major social media platforms are not safe sp [...]
đ Language Is Power. Categories Shape Policy and Perception.
Oppression is not only carried out with fists, laws, and locked doors. [...]
When Your Strength Makes Them Angry
Some people will try to make you feel like you did something wrong j [...]
𧚠The Dangerous Oversight in Some “Alternative Justice” Conversations
In the push for restorative or alternative justice, one painful real [...]
đŁ In Just One Second: 12 Ways People Tell You Theyâre Pro-Abuser
(And Maybe Capable of Abuse Themselves)
Sometimes it doesnât take a [...]
đš Listen Closely. Believe Them.
Too many people overlook this. We want to believe that people are be [...]
Black Pride Is Not a Mask for Violence
We talk a lot about Black pride.We wear it.We speak it.We teach it t [...]
đ€ 12 Ways Black Women Are Harmed When Men Weaponize Oppressive Systems
đ€ 1. Demanding Grace While Denying Ours
Black women are often expecte [...]
𧱠You Donât Have to Build the House to Set the Fire:
The Truth About Harm Within Oppressive Systems
Some people argue:âI [...]
Your Defense of Them Is a Betrayal of Me
Letâs say this out loudâfor the ones still doubting themselves.For the [...]
She Wasnât Weak. He Was Dishonest.
We need to talk about the way society punishes women for being manipul [...]
