Category: RED FLAGS
đ© 5 Signs Youâre Facing Control Disguised as Concern
1. They Center Their Comfort Over Your Safety
If your boundary caus [...]
đ Theyâve Been Ignoring Our Pain for Generations. But We Still Feel It.
On yesterday there was a non-subtle outcry on at least one social me [...]
đ© Red Flag: When Someone Is Offended by Your Boundaries
Pay attention.
If someoneâa person, a group, a movement, a âfriend,â [...]
đ« You Can Be in a Movementâand Still Be Submissive
Letâs talk about something that doesnât get said enough:
Just becau [...]
đ Start Noticing: Saying No Is Not Hate
You may want to start observing the number of times men declare that [...]
When Black Women Say No: The Punishment Is Public
"If I canât have her love, Iâll go to war against her peace"
Some m [...]
đš Silence Isnât Neutral. Itâs Permission.
Letâs talk about the men who say:
âI donât get involved in drama.ââ [...]
đš Fear-Based Manipulation Isnât LoveâItâs Control Dressed as Concern
Fear-Based ManipulationDefinition: Using hypothetical threats or wor [...]
Selective Advocacy Syndrome: When They Show Up for Ego, Not Justice
They say they care about equality.They say they believe in fairness.T [...]
Misogynist Gaslighting: The Reversal That Keeps Women Unsafe
Misogynist gaslighting is not just individual.It's systemic, strategic [...]
Weaponized Moralism: The Silence That Screams
They call it compassion.But only when it protects male access.
They c [...]
The Lie She Tells Herself: When Women Protect the Men Who Harm
"I'd lie for you. I'd die for you. Ride or die for you"- a woman or gi [...]
đ We donât negotiate safety
âïž Some Things Are Black and White
Yes means safety.No means protecti [...]
“She Wasnât Told He Killed Before: The Tragic Workplace Murder of Kerri Harris and the Warning Signs We Canât Ignore”
Women are significantly more likely to be victims of stalking.
Appr [...]
Being Protective Is Good: Why You Donât Have to Choose Between Kindness and Boundaries
In todayâs worldâespecially in progressive spacesâmany women are made [...]
You Can Be Inclusive Without Abandoning Girls, Women, or Survivors
Inclusion should never come at the cost of someone elseâs safety.
But [...]
â Moral Gaslighting: When Women Asking for Safety Are Treated Like the Problem
What is moral gaslighting?
Moral gaslighting happens when women speak [...]
Calling Women âHatefulâ for Wanting Safety Is Abuse Dressed in Decorum
Letâs name this for what it is:
When politicians, media figures, or [...]
Visibility Isnât Safety. And Representation Isnât Protection.
We were told more women in power would mean more safety for all wome [...]
Why Some Voices Are Punished for Asking the Right Questions-Even By Fellow Women
Like Toni Morrison said, we get angry sometimes. So here it is.
We wa [...]
