Category: Relationships

đż The Truth About Hate Groups & Their Harm to Women and Children
I speak the truth, even when it shakes the room.
My refusal to accept [...]
đ Stop Saying âMen Wouldnât Go That Far to Abuse Women
Please stop telling Survivors that "men wouldnât go through the trou [...]

Some Truths Weâre Not Supposed to Say Out Loud- But We Will
We see you.Not with malice.Not with envy.But with ancient knowing.
We [...]

Gaslighting with a Grin: What Covert Bullying Really Looks Like
What Is Covert Bullying?
The Abuse You Canât Always See
Not all bull [...]
“Theyâll Be Raped Anywayâ Is Not a StrategyâItâs Cowardly a Surrender
You say,âWell, women will be raped anywayâŠâas if that justifies handin [...]
The âDying Aloneâ Myth: A Fear Tactic to Control Women
One of the most persistent, tired myths used to scare women into com [...]
Betrayal Blindness: The Cost of Ignoring Harm
Betrayal is not always loud. It does not always come with a clear sign [...]
10 Reasons Men Invading Womenâs SpacesâNo Matter How They IdentifyâIs Abusive, Misogynistic, Gynophobic, and Sexist
Womenâs spaces exist for safety, healing, solidarity, and empowermentâ [...]
When Control Becomes Abuse: Recognizing Coercive Control in Relationships
đ© Concerning Signs of Abuse and Control
How Loss of Autonomy Mirror [...]
Male Predators Are Male: Why Language Matters for Survivor Justice
There is a dangerous misconception that rape is simply about lust or u [...]

How to Support Lesbian Friends in Abusive Relationships
As an advocate, you become familiar with the careful way that a woma [...]
Unburdened: Breaking the Chains of Servitude and Reclaiming Rest for Black Women
Breaking these chains requires a multi-layered approach that include [...]
We Are Not the Worldâs Dumping Ground: The Sacred Art of Refusing Misplaced Blame
Black women, how much of the worldâs weight have you carried today? [...]

The Overlooked Truth: Asexuality, Boundaries, and Survivor Safety
Conversations about safety, consent, and boundaries are vital, yet t [...]

Bullies and Cowards: A Natural Alliance in the Abuse of Women and Vulnerable Adults
If there is one thing history, society, and personal experience have [...]

Breaking the Myth: âMen Donât Need to Be Trans to Rape Womenâ
One of the most dangerous and dismissive talking points circulating to [...]
When They Say Speaking About Racism is the Problem: The Same Old Victim-Blaming Playbook
There is a pattern.
A Survivor of abuse speaks up, and the world re [...]
10 Sacred Truths for Black Women Who Are Tired of Carrying the World
1. You are not a beast of burden.The world will try to make you one. [...]

She Never Saw It Coming: The Danger of Assuming a Man Will Take Care of You for a Lifetime
No woman envisions herself needing the services of a domestic violence [...]
12 Reasons Black Women Have Always Needed Womanism and Feminism
It is so concerning that people who live within community with Bla [...]