🔥 “You Said I Look Like a Man? Let’s Break That Down.”

Subjective Much?

“Looking like a man” is a subjective opinion, not a sacred truth.
It reflects your perception, not my reality.

Irrelevant. Entirely.

Regardless of what you think you see, I will continue living my womanly life—
With the expectations, labor, dangers, responsibilities, and systemic burdens uniquely and intentionally set up for female human beings.
So again… who cares?

What Exactly Am I Supposed to Do With That?

If you really thought I was a man, wouldn’t that mean you’d expect less from me?
Less nurturing.
Less patience.
Less caregiving.
Less suffering in silence.

So now I’m confused—why are you still holding me to the standard you reserve for women?

Let’s be honest:
You see a woman.
You know I’m a woman.

And that comment?
That’s not about how I look—it’s about trying to tear me down.
It’s about trying to make me question my humanity.
To make me feel like I have to prove I deserve dignity.

But I’m not available for that.
I’m not an aesthetic. I’m a human being.
I am not here to please your eye.
I am here to live my life—loudly, freely, truthfully.

So take your projection. Take your insult. Take your need to diminish.

And know this:

• My softness is sacred—not required.

• My silence is not promised.

• My labor is not yours to claim.

• Obedience is not my assignment.

• I am not here to be unaware or unaware on command.

• Cluelessness is not my costume.

• And I will not shrink to fit your discomfort.

✨ Survivor Affirmations:

“I Was Never Meant to Live on the Surface.”

🧿 I am not here to live a shallow life. I am rooted in something deeper.

🧿 I was not created to be consumed—I was created to be known, by myself first.

🧿 My worth is not up for debate. Not on a screen. Not in a crowd. Not in someone else’s fleeting opinion.

🧿 I do not live for fickle, fleeting, and trending aesthetics. I live for alignment. I live for soul. 

🧿 I am more than angles, features, or frames. I am story, soul, and survival.

🧿 I love myself in the quiet, the mess, and the chaos. I love myself in the light and the shadows.

🧿 I do not need to perform beauty to deserve respect.

🧿 I release the weight of being pleasing. I carry the power of being whole.

🧿 I choose a deeper life. A sacred life. A life that sees beyond appearances.

🧿 I do not chase shallow approval. I build unshakeable peace.

🧿 My reflection is not just seen in mirrors—it’s seen in the lives I heal, the love I give, the boundaries I hold.

🧿 I live in the full truth of my womanhood—complex, flawed, complete, and unapologetically divine.

Final word: Men get the privilege of not doing a damn thing no matter what title they wear.

See: father. So calling us a man adds nothing to our to-do list.

Take the neglectful act of failing to pay child support.

📊 Child Support: What Are We Really Receiving?

• Around 30% of custodial parents receive no child support at all cato.org+3usafacts.org+3laurarobbinslaw.com+3.

• Only about 46% receive the full amount they’re legally owed usafacts.org+1cbsnews.com+1.

• 70% may receive some support, but only 46% get the entire sum cato.org+3crownschool.uchicago.edu+3time.com+3.

💸 Breaking It Down: 2017 Snapshot

• 5.4 million custodial parents were owed support; on average they received 62% of the amount time.com+13usafacts.org+13laurarobbinslaw.com+13.

• The median expected payment was ~$4,356/year. But the median received was just ~$1,800 usafacts.org.

• Roughly 30% of custodial parents received nothing, while about 54% didn’t receive the full amount en.wikipedia.org+14usafacts.org+14cbsnews.com+14.

💰 Billions Going Uncollected

• An estimated $10 billion in due child support goes uncollected annually en.wikipedia.org+3cbsnews.com+3crownschool.uchicago.edu+3.

• In 2017, $30+ billion was authorized, but only 62% was actually collected .

• A significant portion of child support that is legally owed is never received—or only partially received. About 1 in 3 custodial parents get nothing, and only 46% get the full amount.

Meanwhile, Billionsssssss remain uncollected every year. And that’s before we even get to the other abusive behavior. 

So, you seeing a man when you look at me, means nothing at all for me. Zero impact. 

Avoid bullying impressionable young ladies into thinking that it does.