Category: Affirmations
đș Affirmation Post: âI Will Not Apologize for Survivingâ
A truth spoken from generations who endured, to those rising now.[...]
Thread Made Iconic: A Love Letter to Our Bodies and the Women Who Sew Beauty Into the World
My Granny used to take us to the sewing shop, her eyes scanning the ro [...]
When Setting Boundaries Feels Wrong (But Itâs Actually You Healing)
"We don't warn one another how hard this part is."
Sometimes setting [...]
đ„ We See the Lie. And We Will Not Be Silent.
It is not hateful to say this out loud:
The same laws that allow ma [...]
đ€ Black Women Never Needed White Womanhood to Be Whole
âAll women stand in their own magnificent uniquenessâwhite women, [...]
đ© 5 Signs Youâre Facing Control Disguised as Concern
1. They Center Their Comfort Over Your Safety
If your boundary caus [...]
Why Setting Boundaries Feels Like Breaking Rules You Never Agreed To
You finally speak up.You say, âI canât do that.âYou say, âI donât feel [...]
The More You Heal, the More You Offend Those Who Donât Want To
Healing is sacred work. And yet, it can come with surprising backlashâ [...]
5 Reasons Abusive People See Your Boundaries as Unnecessary
When you begin to heal, grow, or protect yourself, one of the first [...]
đ Theyâve Been Ignoring Our Pain for Generations. But We Still Feel It.
On yesterday there was a non-subtle outcry on at least one social me [...]
đ© Red Flag: When Someone Is Offended by Your Boundaries
Pay attention.
If someoneâa person, a group, a movement, a âfriend,â [...]
đ Allyship Is Not a Dating Obligation
Letâs make something abundantly clear:
Being an ally to a group, a [...]
đ« You Can Be in a Movementâand Still Be Submissive
Letâs talk about something that doesnât get said enough:
Just becau [...]
đ Start Noticing: Saying No Is Not Hate
You may want to start observing the number of times men declare that [...]
đŁ A Hard Truth: You Do Not Have to Play the Role They Assigned You
Letâs begin here:You are not required to play a role in someone elseâs [...]
When Black Women Say No: The Punishment Is Public
"If I canât have her love, Iâll go to war against her peace"
Some m [...]
đ© Entitlement to Womenâs Choices Is MisogynyâNo Matter Who It Comes From
Some men hear ânoâ and immediately rewrite the story in their heads:âS [...]
What Stays When You Start Healing
We talk a lot about what you lose when you heal:The people who walk [...]
Who Leaves When You Start Healing
They donât always leave when youâre breaking.Sometimes they leave wh [...]
Youâre Not FailingâYouâre Feeling
A post for Survivors who mistake emotional struggle for regression[...]
