You can tell someone that you had a painful childhood without handing them the whole house key. Some people hear a small disclosure and immediately begin opening doors. Who was …
Tonya GJ Prince
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HealingBody safetyBoundariesConsentFemale Health and SafetySafe Boundaried SpacesSelf careSelf LoveSelf Worth
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Black WomenCivil Rights & Social JusticeHerstory/HistoryManipulationWomanism/FeminismWomen
What Does “Being Against Racism” Mean If You are Comfortable with What Racism Has Left Behind?
What does being against racism mean if you are comfortable with what racism has left behind? If someone condemns the cruelty of yesterday but resents every effort to repair its …
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Survival and Recovery after Domestic Violence…..
Some: Well, why should we care about violence prevention? Because acts of violence impact the entire community. This woman survived, and we are so thankful! AND, look at the aftereffects. …
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You Cannot Fight Human Trafficking by Asking Us to Forget Enslavement
Wealth can travel through generations. So can the consequences of being denied it. Some people discover a deep concern for present-day human trafficking the moment Black people begin talking about …
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WomenBlack WomenBody safetyBoundariesFemale Civil RightsFemale Health and SafetyMisogynyViolationViolence Against WomenWomanism/FeminismWomen's Rights
You Can Look at Women All Your Life and Still Not See Us
Some movements show they are not interested in seeing or hearing from all women. We should not ignore that. “New” or rebranded movements, same old male-entitled and defective vision of …
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Safe People Don’t Need Endless Convincing to Respect a Boundary
Why do some people need endless explanations before they’ll respect a reasonable boundary? You explain calmly, reassure them, and answer their questions. Yet somehow, you’re still defending the precaution while …
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Somebody takes a little longer to answer your message, and suddenly you are reviewing everything you said over lunch. Was that story too long? Did you talk too much? Should …
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Women Have Sundown Spaces, Too. We’ve Just Gotten Used to It.
We have become so accustomed to women arranging their lives around danger that we sometimes mistake their restricted movement for “freedom.” Knowing how to live around a restriction does not …
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They Put Her Mother in an Ad. She’s Still Standing.
Of course, her opponent believes that surviving rape as a child means that she is a flawed candidate…… Picture this. The last time you saw your mother, you were 12 …
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You Can Be Nervous and Still Mean No: Holding Your Boundaries When Someone Tries to Shame You
You do not have to stop feeling apprehensive before you can stand by what you said. Your voice may shake. You may need to read from a note. Dignity does …