Picture this. The last time you saw your mother, you were 12 years old and standing in a courtroom. Forty-eight years later you turn on the TV, and there she …
Tonya GJ Prince
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ConfidenceConsentDECEPTIONHealingJustice is Authentic LoveManipulationMental Wellness and HealingMental Wellness and HealthPolitical ActionPowerRelationships
You Can Be Nervous and Still Mean No: Holding Your Boundaries When Someone Tries to Shame You
You do not have to stop feeling apprehensive before you can stand by what you said. Your voice may shake. You may need to read from a note. Dignity does …
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Women's RightsCivil Rights & Social JusticeMisogynySelf careSelf LoveSelf WorthTRUTHViolence Against WomenWisdomWomen
Shaming a Woman Into Silence Does Not Mean She Agrees
Sometimes a woman stops explaining because she has learned what happens when she speaks. She raises a concern, and suddenly the conversation is about her attitude. She asks for privacy, …
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Black WomenStatisticsStorytellingWomanism/Feminism
Has Black Women’s Representation in Media Declined? (Stats and Research)
Are any of the people demanding Black women’s labor reciprocally laboring on our behalf? Overall, Black women’s on‑screen presence has grown in some metrics over the past decade, but research …
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TRUTHDECEPTIONFemale SafetyJustice is Authentic LoveLegal/CourtroomManipulationPower
A Polite Tone Can Still Carry a Disrespectful Demand
The pattern here is redirecting scrutiny from the harm to the harmed person’s language, with polite wording making the pressure appear reasonable. Some of the most disrespectful things women receive …
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Surviving DailyAffirmationsConfidenceEncourageLoving SafelySelf careSelf LoveSelf Worth
You Don’t Always Have to Be Useful to Be Welcome
Before you accept the invitation, you start thinking about what you can bring. And somewhere between the grocery list and offering to come early to help, you forget that somebody …
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RelationshipsAbuseLoving SafelyMale Victims and AlliesSafe Boundaried SpacesSafety
When You Love Someone Who Was Abused as a Child: 10 Ways to Be Helpful
Someone can be deeply loved and still have nobody at home they feel safe telling. Having worked on hotlines, I know that people sometimes call or open a chat because …
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Female Civil RightsFemale Health and SafetyGirlsPowerRapeRED FLAGSViolationViolence Against WomenWomen's Rights
Are We Comfortable With Women’s Freedom Only When Women Say Yes?
Some people love a strong woman right up until she tells them no. You may have met that person. They admire how you speak your mind, how you “handle your …
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What Jim Crow Teaches Us About Backlash: 8 Lessons for Anyone Fighting to Secure Their Rights
Jim Crow was not born because Black people failed at freedom. It grew from the determination of white supremacists to restrict what Black people could accomplish with freedom. Here’s something …
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Women's RightsDECEPTIONFemale Civil RightsFemale Health and SafetyFemale SafetyMental Wellness and HealthRelationshipsViolationWomanism/Feminism
10 Social Expectations Placed on Women When It Comes to Men
Women Are Expected to Protect Men’s Feelings Women are often encouraged to soften their words, cushion rejection, and avoid embarrassing men. Even when a woman is uncomfortable, people may worry …