Author: Tonya GJ Prince
“She Knew What She Was Doing.” Why Do Adults Say This About Abused Children?
If there were no rapist in the vicinity, the child would not have bee [...]
A Book and Film I Recommend: Bastard Out of Carolina by Dorothy Allison
Another book from my personal shelf...Some books stay with you lon [...]
Stop Shaming Women for Protecting Themselves
updated from September 24, 2025
Too often, when a woman dares to spea [...]
Why Is Everybody Debating What a Woman Is Instead of Asking Why People Fear Male Violence?
You don't have to worry about who we women are—since you don't seem to [...]
If Men Can Organize to Challenge Women’s Boundaries, Why Can’t They Organize to Challenge Male Violence?
I am interested in the men who are willing to challenge male vio [...]
Jeffrey Marsalis Was Called a “Prolific Rapist.” But What About the System That Kept Failing Women?
When people discuss Jeffrey Marsalis, they often describe him as a "pr [...]
Why Do We Keep Teaching Women and Children to Live Around Harm Instead of Stopping the People Causing It?
They were in the kitchen. It was a small, minor disagreement, b [...]
Black Leaders Understand Why We Question Racial Identity. So Why Is It Different When Women Question Sex?
It takes extraordinary arrogance to approach grown women as if we are [...]
12 Hallmarks of Self-Abandonment: When Keeping Everyone Else Happy Means Losing Yourself
How we slowly surrender our boundaries, judgment, and needs, and what [...]
Women Are Human Beings Outside of Their Relationships With Males
12 ways women are pressured, persuaded, and sometimes punished for ref [...]