(Inspired by âHow Abusers Place Themselves Above Accountabilityâ â WeSurviveAbuse.com) Racism often hides inside the language of lessons.It calls con
(Inspired by âHow Abusers Place Themselves Above Accountabilityâ â WeSurviveAbuse.com)
Racism often hides inside the language of lessons.
It calls control care. It calls domination discipline.
It justifies cruelty as character-building.
Hereâs how racism disguises itself as teaching or orderâwhile still protecting power:
1ď¸âŁ Rewriting the Story
History shifts so that harm appears noble.
Brutality becomes âcivilization.â
Slavery becomes âtraining.â
Jim Crow becomes âlaw and order.â
2ď¸âŁ Weaponizing the Image
Authority presents itself as benevolentâmissionary, teacher, reformer.
The system looks holy and helpful while the people enduring it are cast as defiant or ungrateful.
3ď¸âŁ Recruiting Defenders
Supporters repeat the story:
âThis is for their own good.â
âThis is how discipline works.â
The cycle keeps turning because the narrative protects the abuser, not the abused.
4ď¸âŁ Framing Accountability as Attack
When truth rises, itâs labeled “rebellion.”
When Black people demand fairness, the demand itself becomes the offense.
The goal is silence, not understanding.
5ď¸âŁ Demanding Forgiveness Before Truth
Calls to âmove onâ or ânot dwell on the pastâ appear long before real confession or repair.
Racism insists on peace before honesty, comfort before accountability.
6ď¸âŁ Isolating Truth-Tellers
Anyone who names racial harm risks being labeled divisive, angry, or ungrateful.
Isolation replaces dialogue.
Exile replaces empathy.
7ď¸âŁ Using Power, Money, or Status as a Shield
Systems protect their image and wealth before protecting people.
Prestige covers what morality cannot justify.
8ď¸âŁ Performing Accountability Without Practicing It
Statements appear. Apologies circulate.
But when repair costs power or privilege, the performance ends.
Accountability without change is just another mask.
Racism calls itself education, progress, and order.
But domination dressed as discipline is still domination.
The lesson was never loveâit was control.
And itâs time to stop calling that history a favor.