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We keep investigating the people who came through the gate. I want to see the records of the people who controlled it
There is something I have learned after watching public arguments come and go for many years.
Sometimes everybody is looking in the wrong direction.
Not because the question being asked is completely foolish. Not because there is nothing worth discussing. But because we can become so focused on the person who received an opportunity that we forget to look at the people who had the power to give it.
Women have seen this trick before.
For years, people whispered about successful women: âShe slept her way to the top.â
IF sleeping with somebody could supposedly get a woman a job, promotion, movie role, contract, or opportunity, then somebody had the power to trade opportunity for sexual access.
That person deserves some questions too.
We eventually learned to turn our heads toward the gatekeeper. Before you shame the woman who walked through the door, find out who had the key, who wrote the rules, and who decided she could enter
I think some of our conversations about DEI need that same turn.
There is something about the current DEI conversation that keeps bothering me.
We spend an awful lot of time examining the Black person who finally got through the door.
Were they qualified?
Were they the most qualified?
Did race help them?
Would they have gotten there without DEI?
Meanwhile, I am sitting over here wondering why we aren’t spending nearly as much time examining the people who controlled that door.
Because Black people did not suddenly become intelligent, educated, talented, disciplined, creative, capable, or hardworking when somebody invented a diversity program. When Black people finally enter an institution, do not begin the history on the day they arrived. Tell me about the years somebody kept them outside.
We were qualified while the doors were locked. And some of us became extraordinarily prepared precisely because we understood that being merely good might never be enough. So before we turn every Black employee, professor, doctor, executive, student, pilot, judge, scientist, or professional into a walking debate about DEI, there are a few things worth remembering.
1. Black People Were Never an Unqualified Population Waiting to Be Rescued
My ancestors were not lacking talent. They were facing gates built to keep their talent from becoming power.
Let’s clear that up first.
Black Americans have been scholars, inventors, physicians, attorneys, teachers, engineers, entrepreneurs, writers, farmers, builders, scientists, nurses, military leaders, artists and organizers for generations.
Segregation did not prove that Black people lacked ability.
Discrimination did not prove it.
Being denied admission did not prove it.
Being passed over for promotion did not prove it.
Those things demonstrated something about the gatekeepers, not the people standing outside the gate. A locked door does not tell you anything about the talent standing outside it. It tells you something about the person holding the key
A locked door cannot measure the talent standing on the other side.
2. Sometimes Black People Had to Be Better Just to Be Considered
If a Black woman had to outperform, overprepare, stay composed, earn extra credentials, and survive extra scrutiny just to reach the starting line, perhaps she isn’t the person whose qualifications we should automatically doubt.
Older Black folks have been telling us this forever.
âYou’re going to have to work twice as hard.â
That wasn’t necessarily a celebration. It was often a warning.
Get the degree.
Know your work.
Be prepared.
Don’t give them an excuse.
Double-check everything.
Show up early.
Watch how you speak.
Know more than they expect you to know.
Black parents weren’t teaching children these things because they believed Black people were less capable.
Quite the opposite.
They understood that prejudice could cause Black competence to be judged more harshly.
So there is something deeply strange about looking at generations raised under pressure to overprepare and casually assuming their success must have resulted from lowered standards.
3. Having to Work Twice as Hard Can Produce Some Remarkably Qualified People
Black people were inventing, teaching, healing, building, writing, leading and creating while institutions were still debating whether to let us inside.
There is an uncomfortable possibility missing from many conversations about merit:
The Black person you’re questioning might not merely be qualified.
She might be exceptionally prepared.
Someone who has repeatedly had to prove herself may arrive with qualifications that don’t fit neatly onto a rĂ©sumĂ©.
She may know how to perform under scrutiny.
Navigate hostile environments.
Solve problems with fewer resources.
Recover from setbacks.
Read a room.
Adapt.
Lead people who underestimate her.
Work without the same mentoring or social connections others received.
Those aren’t consolation prizes.
Those can become serious professional strengths.
We shouldn’t romanticize discrimination. Black people should never have been required to overcome it.
But neither should we pretend overcoming barriers teaches a person nothing.
4. âDEI Hireâ Can Hide an Extraordinary Double Standard
When somebody says, âThey only got there because the standards changed,â I have another question: What standards once allowed qualified Black people to be rejected simply because they were Black?
Listen carefully when someone uses that phrase.
Sometimes the Black employee is expected to prove something nobody asks of everybody else:
Were you the absolute best person who could possibly have been hired?
Well, hold on.
Is that how every organization has ever operated?
Every white employee was unquestionably the finest available human being?
Every boss’s nephew?
Every legacy student?
Every person hired through a friend’s recommendation?
Every executive recruited through somebody’s private network?
Every employee who âknew somebodyâ?
We know better.
People can be qualified without being the single most qualified person theoretically available on planet Earth.
That has always been true.
It shouldn’t suddenly become controversial when the employee is Black.
5. If You Believe an Unqualified Black Person Was Hired, Look at Who Hired Them
The question is not only who was helped through the door. Ask who had been welcomed through it for generations without their qualifications becoming a national debate.
Here comes a favorite question:
Who made the decision?
Because the applicant didn’t hire herself.
If you believe an organization ignored qualifications, then investigate the organization.
Who wrote the requirements?
Who reviewed the applications?
Who conducted the interviews?
Who recommended the candidate?
Who approved the hire?
If standards were lowered, who lowered them?
If policy was misused, who misused it?
If somebody was promoted despite poor performance, who promoted them?
Don’t hand all that institutional power to the Black employee after the fact.
Follow the gatekeeper.
6. Gatekeepers Were Making Race-Based Decisions Long Before DEI
The gatekeeper’s prejudice was never evidence of Black incompetence.
This is the historical part that cannot be erased.
For much of American history, race wasn’t merely something institutions occasionally considered. Race could determine whether Black Americans were even allowed to participate.
Gatekeepers controlled access to universities, neighborhoods, professions, unions, businesses, loans, apprenticeships, leadership positions and countless other opportunities.
And sometimes the answer to Black Americans was simply:
No.
Not because the Black applicant lacked talent.
Because the gatekeeper was permitted to discriminate.
So when discussing policies designed to address exclusion, we cannot begin the story in 2020.
Or 2000.
Or 1980.
The gate was already there.
7. Those Gatekeepers Never Should Have Been Keeping Black People Out
Integration did not manufacture Black ability. It finally forced institutions to confront ability they had spent generations refusing to recognize.
This needs to be said plainly.
The injustice wasn’t that Black people eventually gained access.
The injustice was that qualified Black people had been denied access in the first place.
A Black child should never have needed extraordinary courage to enter a school.
A Black professional should never have needed extraordinary credentials to overcome ordinary prejudice.
A Black family should never have needed extraordinary persistence to receive ordinary financial consideration.
A Black worker should never have needed to become twice as good to receive half the consideration.
Those barriers were wrong.
Removing an unjust barrier isn’t giving somebody something that rightfully belonged to somebody else.
Sometimes it means finally stopping somebody from standing where they never had a moral right to stand:
between another human being and a fair opportunity.
8. Merit Has Never Existed Outside Human Judgment
Merit cannot be discussed honestly without discussing who was allowed to demonstrate theirs.
We talk about âmeritâ as though there is a machine somewhere calculating it.
There isn’t.
Human beings decide what counts.
One employer values experience.
Another values education.
Another wants leadership.
Another wants creativity.
Another values communication.
Another thinks someone is a âgood cultural fit.â
And there is plenty of room for bias inside those judgments.
That doesn’t mean merit is meaningless.
It means we should examine how merit is defined, who gets to define it, and whether those definitions are being applied consistently.
That’s gatekeeper territory.
9. Black Excellence Existed When White Institutions Refused to Recognize It
The gate was unjust before anybody developed a program for opening it
This may be the part I want younger Black people to remember most.
Your history did not begin when somebody let us inside.
Black people built schools when established institutions excluded us.
We built businesses.
Churches.
Professional organizations.
Newspapers.
Mutual-aid societies.
Colleges.
Cultural institutions.
Communities of scholarship.
We produced brilliance under circumstances that were often designed to suppress it.
Integration didn’t create Black excellence.
Civil-rights laws didn’t create Black excellence.
Affirmative action didn’t create Black excellence.
DEI didn’t create Black excellence.
Those things encountered Black excellence that was already here.
10. Stop Making Every Black Person Carry the Reputation of an Entire Race
Do not confuse being excluded with being unqualified. Sometimes the most qualified person in the room was simply the one the gatekeeper refused to see.
This burden gets exhausting.
A mediocre white employee can simply be mediocre.
Nobody necessarily announces:
âWell, this proves hiring white people doesn’t work.â
But put a Black person into a visible position and sometimes their performance becomes evidence in a national argument.
If they succeed, people may barely notice.
If they fail, somebody says:
âSee? DEI.â
No.
Black people are human beings.
Some will be extraordinary.
Most will fall somewhere within the broad range of human ability.
Some will fail.
And an individual Black person’s failure no more establishes Black inferiority than an individual white person’s failure establishes white inferiority.
Equality includes the freedom to be evaluated as an individual.
11. Ask Who Benefited From the Gate Before You Only Question Who Benefits From Opening It
Some Black people had to be twice as prepared just to be considered half as promising. Do not mistake that struggle for a lack of merit
This is where the conversation gets more interesting.
Who got the internships?
Who heard about openings through friends?
Who received mentorship?
Who was considered âleadership materialâ?
Who was invited into professional networks?
Whose mistakes were considered learning experiences?
Who received second chances?
Who was assumed competent before proving it?
Who had relatives who already understood how the institution worked?
Those advantages don’t necessarily mean those people were unqualified either.
That’s precisely the point.
Human opportunity is complicated.
So let’s stop pretending complexity appeared the minute Black people started receiving opportunities.
12. Turn Your Attention Toward the Gatekeeper
Before you call her a diversity hire, ask how many ordinary white people were hired without anyone demanding that they prove they represented the absolute best of their race.
You can criticize DEI.
You can defend it.
You can believe some programs worked and others failed.
But whatever position you take, complete the analysis.
Ask:
Who hired her?
Who promoted her?
Then go back another generation.
Who rejected qualified Black applicants?
Who denied Black families loans?
Who refused Black students admission?
Who kept Black workers from advancing?
Who decided Black professionals weren’t âa good fitâ?
Who had the authority?
Who had the discretion?
Who had the key?
Because Black people were never standing outside America’s gates waiting to become talented enough to enter.
We were working.
Studying.
Building.
Inventing.
Creating.
Leading.
Surviving.
Preparing.
Sometimes becoming twice as ready because experience had taught us that half as ready would never be forgiven.
The gatekeeper’s refusal to recognize Black ability was never proof that Black ability wasn’t there.
And perhaps that is where this conversation needs to land:
Black people did not need America to lower the bar. America needed to stop putting racial gates in front of the bar.
We were qualified while the door was locked.
The door never should have been locked in the first place.
Affirmations
I know that Black ability did not begin with recognition. We possessed talent before institutions acknowledged it.
I will not mistake historical exclusion for evidence of lesser ability. A closed gate tells me who controlled access, not who possessed talent.
I honor the generations of Black people who studied harder, prepared longer, worked twice as hard and still faced doors that should never have been closed to them.
I do not accept the assumption that my presence requires special explanation while somebody else’s presence is automatically called merit.
I belong in rooms where my knowledge, preparation, experience and gifts have carried me.
I will ask better questions. Who made the decision? Who created the standard? Who received grace? Who received scrutiny? Who held the key?
I refuse to inherit shame for overcoming barriers I did not create.
I can examine policies honestly without accepting the lie that Black achievement is artificial.
I remember that removing discrimination does not create Black excellence. It gives Black excellence more room to breathe.
I come from people whose brilliance survived even when opportunity did not.
And there is a deeper line running underneath this whole collection:
Black people should never have needed extraordinary strength to overcome ordinary people’s prejudice.