They say they care about equality.They say they believe in fairness.They say they’re here for liberation. But watch when they speak up—and who they
They say they care about equality.
They say they believe in fairness.
They say they’re here for liberation.
But watch when they speak up—
and who they speak for.
Because when girls are hurt,
when women are harmed,
when our bodies are brutalized or our rights are erased—
they disappear.
This is Selective Advocacy Syndrome (nothing new about it)
And here’s what it looks like:
1. They’re Silent When Girls Are Abused
Disabled girls.
Black girls.
Poor girls.
Refugee girls.
They endure assault, neglect, and silence.
But these “advocates” say nothing—because our pain doesn’t trend.
2. They’re Absent When Women Are Killed
One in three women will face male violence.
Some won’t survive.
But there are no statements.
No rallies.
No TikToks.
Because the truth makes people uncomfortable.
3. They’re Quiet When We Fight for Safety
We say we need protections.
We say we need boundaries.
We say no.
But they don’t show up to support us—
because male access to our spaces matters more to them than our lives in those spaces.
4. But Let a Man’s Feelings Be Hurt…
Suddenly, they rise up.
They post.
They protest.
They cry “injustice.”
Not because someone was harmed—
but because a male was denied access to something women built for safety, healing, or survival.
5. This Isn’t Advocacy. It’s Ego.
Their priority is not justice.
It’s proximity to power.
It’s pleasing the loudest men.
It’s protecting male entitlement while pretending it’s allyship.
🕯️ For Women & Girls Who’ve Been Ignored:
You deserved protection the first time you cried.
You deserved justice even when no one clapped.
You deserved safety before it became politically popular.
You are not invisible.
You are not disposable.
You are not alone.
We are building something different.
Louder. Truer. Unapologetically centered on your survival.
Share if you feel safe and ready—your voice might be the lifeline someone else needs.
And if you do share, remember to cite the messenger. Words carry legacy.
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