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When the Mourning Is Selective: A Reflection on Silence, Justice, and Sacred Courage(audio version included)
Abuse of Power, Audio

When the Mourning Is Selective: A Reflection on Silence, Justice, and Sacred Courage(audio version included)

TGJP May 9, 2022
updated from 2022 LISTEN HERE Black women also experience sign [...]
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Please Say Something to Help End Black Femicide
Femicide, Health

Please Say Something to Help End Black Femicide

TGJP April 13, 2022
  elink.io | See Original [...]
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Book Shelf: Finding Purpose in the Pain: Devotions for Victims of Parental Alienation
Books, child safety

Book Shelf: Finding Purpose in the Pain: Devotions for Victims of Parental Alienation

TGJP March 29, 2022
 I received a link to the book below and it put it on my heart to [...]
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So, Who Centers Female Issues?
Body safety, Disabilities

So, Who Centers Female Issues?

TGJP March 21, 2022
 So if there are women who don't believe that: female health, fem [...]
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Not So Good Reasons to Date a Person
Female Safety, Relationships

Not So Good Reasons to Date a Person

TGJP March 21, 2022
 Coercion: Women and Girls Do Not Owe You Access to Them | WE Sur [...]
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🛑 Summer Safety Alert: Predators Count on Your Distractions—Don’t Let Them
Abuse by Older Children, Child Abuse

🛑 Summer Safety Alert: Predators Count on Your Distractions—Don’t Let Them

TGJP June 3, 2016
  Yes, it’s summer again. And while many of us are fo [...]
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Gaslighting Isn’t Love: Red Flags Black Women Can Choose to Name Out Loud — and Walk Away From
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Gaslighting Isn’t Love: Red Flags Black Women Can Choose to Name Out Loud — and Walk Away From

updated from April 7, 2023 Sometimes they try to make you feel like you're “too emotional,” “too sensitive,” or “doing too much.” But the truth is: [...]
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⭐ Why I Resist Diluted Language Like “Birthing People” Part 1
Abuse of Power

⭐ Why I Resist Diluted Language Like “Birthing People” Part 1

  Updated from November 2025 How hard is it to just say "mothers and.....?"   In 2024, Black women had a maternal mortalit [...]
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You Deserve Safety—Even When You’re Just Trying to Keep Going
Abuse

You Deserve Safety—Even When You’re Just Trying to Keep Going

Some of us were never told that we deserved to feel safe.We were told to keep going.To be strong.To not make a scene.To forgive.To forget. [...]
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Part 2: Why I Resist Diluted Language
Women's Rights

Part 2: Why I Resist Diluted Language

But self-knowledgeBut self-knowledgeThe reason I refuse diluted language is because I have watched institutions dilute women's experiences f [...]
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They Want Us to Give Up “Mother” While Rapists Keep “Father”
Women's Rights

They Want Us to Give Up “Mother” While Rapists Keep “Father”

"Will a highly neutral parentage framework be sensitive enough to recognize unequal power, violence, coercion, reproductive abuse, and sexual [...]
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When Someone Refuses to Leave You Alone: Understanding Forced Access
Abuse of Power

When Someone Refuses to Leave You Alone: Understanding Forced Access

When Someone Refuses to Respect Distance It's one thing to talk about the need for and importance of boundaries. We need to talk more about w [...]
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Every Solution Was Rejected Because Access Was the Goal: Understanding Forced Access, Coercion, and Why So Many Women Feel Pressured to Explain Themselves
DECEPTION

Every Solution Was Rejected Because Access Was the Goal: Understanding Forced Access, Coercion, and Why So Many Women Feel Pressured to Explain Themselves

A woman asks for safety. Everyone else asks for evidence.   🌿 Sometimes a woman is not asking for much. She is asking for rest. Sh [...]
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American Violet and the Fight to Remain the Expert on Your Own Life
Media Club/Media WE Love

American Violet and the Fight to Remain the Expert on Your Own Life

  Control rarely begins with chains. It often begins with convincing people that their own eyes, ears, memory, and judgment cannot be tr [...]
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Was It Really the First Time? What Repeat Offender Statistics Reveal About Violence and Abuse
Abuse

Was It Really the First Time? What Repeat Offender Statistics Reveal About Violence and Abuse

The recent UK review that found serial rapists and offenders remained in policing despite serious warning signs and vetting failures. Which go [...]
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When the State Stops Saying “Mother”: Why Inclusive Language Must Still Include Women
Abuse

When the State Stops Saying “Mother”: Why Inclusive Language Must Still Include Women

  Introduction The issue is not that mothers will stop being mothers in real life. Women will still carry babies through morning sickn [...]
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