Some groups want our rhythm, our language, our beautyābut not our justice. They say they care about Black women. They post our photos.Quote our hero
Some groups want our rhythm, our language, our beautyābut not our justice.
They say they care about Black women.
They post our photos.
Quote our heroes.
Find one or two of us to speak on their stages.
And stillā
behind the scenes, beneath the policies,
they harm women.
They harm children.
They harm Survivors.
Hate groupsāand those aligned with themātokenize Black women not because they respect usā¦
But because they need our credibility to cover their cruelty.
Hereās How the Game Works:
Step 1: Find a Black woman willing to echo their talking points.
Step 2: Give her a platform, a microphone, a paycheck.
Step 3: Point to her every time someone names the harm.
āHow can we be hateful? She agrees with us.ā
But donāt be fooled.
Thatās not representation. Thatās not equity. Thatās exploitation.
Let me say this with love and clarity:
Any āmovementā that:
Justifies the rollback of womenās rights
Tramples on childrenās safety
Attacks Survivors and silences truth
ā¦is not pro-Black. Not pro-family. Not pro-woman.
Even if a Black woman is standing at the podium.
Tokenism has a purpose:
To distract.
To divide.
To destabilize movements built by and for women and children.
It mimics the language of loveāwhile pushing policies of harm.
What Theyāre Really Saying:
āWe canāt be harmfulāweāve got a Black woman on our side.ā
āWe donāt need to listen to those womenāweāve got a different Black woman over here.ā
āYouāre the angry kind. Sheās the agreeable kind.ā
We were not born to be useful tools in someone elseās oppression.
Not as shields.
Not as symbols.
Not as silence.
They may try to buy your silence.
To flatter your platform.
To wrap their violence in your skin.
But we remember who we are.
Daughters of truth-tellers.
Mothers of movements.
Survivors of every storm.
Black women were never meant to be the face of someone elseās violence.
Donāt let your legacy be used to dismantle the safety of other women and children.
Just because they picked you doesnāt mean theyāll protect you.
The one who lends her voice to silence will one day be silenced too.
And to Those Who Think We Can Be Used:
We see you.
We name what youāre doing.
And we are not confused.
Tokenism is not liberation.
Representation without justice is not freedom.
And no amount of Black faces can cover up the damage youāre doing to women and children.
We will not be the face of your harm.
We will not lend our voices to your lies.
We are the truth-tellers. The protectors. The ones who remember.
And weāre not backing down.
You canāt tokenize truth and expect silence.
If it harms women and children, it is not liberationāitās strategy.
A borrowed voice cannot sing a freedom song.
Not now.
Not ever.
*fyi-randoms online inserting faux concern for Black women being “hurt” for testing that will ensure the safety and protection of spaces of for women girls uses this same tactic. There is no true or authentic concern for Black women. The only concern is for men to push past the boundaries and rights of women and children.
š Affirmations
1. I will not be used to harm those I was born to protect.
2. My voice cannot be rented. My values cannot be bought.
3. I stand for truth, even when they dress up lies in my likeness.
4. I do not need a stage to be powerful. I need truth to be free.
5. I will not mistake a spotlight for safety.
6. I am rooted in the wisdom of women who would not bow to harm.
7. I choose alignment over applause. Purpose over platform.
8. I am not afraid to lose favor. I am afraid to lose myself.
9. I do not carry their shame. I carry ancestral power.
10. My liberation will never require the suffering of women or children.
