Category: Self care

Beautiful Before Anyone Gave Permission: Remembering Victoria Santa Cruz
I went to grade school with a girl who might put you on the mind of th [...]

Embracing Your Own Worth: The Power of Self-Validation (with Affirmations)
updated from Dec 2, 2024Â "It costs you nothing to just validate an [...]

Who Decided Black Women Werenât Feminine?
A movement does not become more compassionate by asking the vulnerable [...]

The Dangerous Person Is Always the Most âInterestingâ Person in the Room
I will help build a culture where doing good is interesting again.[...]

She Lied to Herself First: How Women Protect Harmful MenâAnd Turn on Other Women
 updated from June 7, 2025
Thereâs a quiet lie that echoes through [...]

When âNothing Will Happenâ Isnât a Safety Plan: Asking About Real Safeguards
updated from February 2026âIf your confidence turns out to be misp [...]

Facing Reality: Identity Does Not Erase Patterns of Male Violence
updated from March 11 2025
We can respect individuals while remaining [...]

Calling Women âHatefulâ for Wanting Safety Is Abuse Dressed in Decorum
updated from June 3 2025
Letâs name this for what it is:
When poli [...]

When âJust Give Him a Chanceâ Stops Being Advice and Starts Becoming Pressure
Old habits die hard. Changing laws is often easier tha [...]

Consent Beyond the Bedroom: Womenâs Autonomy in Dating and Relationships
Consent is not only the right to say yes. It is the freedom to say no [...]